assuming that the person is not the one with whom you shared the relationship and secondly that he/she is a virgin.
2006-06-13 22:03:10 · 10 answers · asked by danil d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes honesty is good policy but wisdom in marriage is more important. inicially avoid the topic for some time till you know each other well. If the partner is a person of understanding and intelegent then only tell otherwise this information will be used in future during arguments and fights which invariably take place even in happy marriges. Precaution is better than cure. so my advice is dont tell any such thing which may spoil your pleasant relations. By telling truth you will simply collect negative points for you, what use? talk good things and enjoy the marriage.
2006-06-13 23:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by observer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father always told me, that honesty is the best policy. You and your partner must trust each other, and the past should be the past, therefore the past should be known, however not judged upon. Your partner might also admire your honesty.
2006-06-14 05:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that anything (if there was anything) before they came into your life is personal and that you see no good reason to share. It is not like you cheated on them. You weren't together with this person then.
2006-06-14 05:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jennyee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun tell abt those 1nite stand, it will haunt their mind tt u r such person.. But for previous serious relationship, you shd tell, BUT no need to g into details, for it can cause Serious Jealousy..
2006-06-14 05:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by HappYGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, plain and simple. About this any everything else if you want your marriage to last.
2006-06-14 07:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by smartypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I did : I answered the truth. Do tell the truth. They will know eventually either way so you better tell the truth!
2006-06-14 05:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by abe_perkins81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get marriage its all about you and him its dont matter what happen before he should respect you about it and you also this is why the have vow read them and understand them marriage is not a game
2006-06-14 05:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth.isn't the whole idea of marriage based on trust and respect , needless to say love..
2006-06-14 05:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by curioasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give a smile without answering anything.
2006-06-14 05:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Badiuzzaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hide anythin from him/her (especially such things)
it will make u fell guilty in the future........
& he/she will feel betrayed after he/she comes 2 know the truth.................
2006-06-14 05:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by vasudha roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋