My wife met a western man and she lied to him that we had problems for a long time. TEven he had, he shouldn't touch my wife as she is still have a husband at that time . Later she moved out and stayed with the western man afterwards. I have been very sad and nearly collapsed. Also, that western man is much much older than her, like her father. The only thing is that he is richer than me.
Why she do this to me and then son, and why that western man took my wife as she is just as old as his daughter. Now my family has been broken. What I can do to repair my hurt? Should I go to talk to that western man?
2006-06-13 21:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey be happy that you have your son cause if she is able to leave her marriage for another person do you really want your son around that person. It's unethical and it's just plain wrong. teach your son right that that type of behavior is not proper. Be the best dad you can be.
I am dealing with a situation similar and trying to get custody of my son so I can teach him that there is wrong and there is right.
2006-06-14 01:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by dean_moriarty00 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are being really pathetic. Don't talk to the man, you will look like a fool. Why do you want her anyway? She did you a favor because now you don't have to put up with her. You want to repair the hurt? File for divorce and get custody of your child immediately. Make sure you stick it to her on child support, don't forget about day care either. Life will go on and you will be much better off.
2006-06-14 04:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by The Infidel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something women deal with on a daily basis. The best thing to do is join a single parents support group. Who knows you might even meet someone. If there are not any local groups you might find one on the net. Check your newspaper and ask your sons principal cause a lot of times these support groups have their meetings at the local school.
2006-06-14 04:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jade Ariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I have to say if she wasn't happy with your relationship it is good she left just not the way she left.The reason I say this is because if she wasnt happy clearly no one else would be happy.She should have talked to you or tried to work on things first.Thats why so many ppl get divorces these days, they arent commited enough to try and work things out.Secondly I have NO respect for any woman that could leave their child for anyone.If you have kids you should put them before everything even your own needs.So on that note let her go.She is selfish and not worth it.You need to move on and be strong for yourself and your son.
2006-06-14 04:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other man is older so that means more experience. He has more money so that means she can shop more. I thing you should give up and get yourself a girly
2006-06-14 04:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes no sense to confront the man who is dating your wife. What would that prove?
2006-06-14 04:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like all you Eastern, third world men get jealous of Western men that you'd kill them over your wives and rob these men of their money.
2014-03-06 12:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,good riddance!! File a divorce asap and get yourself the girl you deserve!
2006-06-14 06:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by CuteGirl_36_24_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL OF COURSE U JUST CAN'T FORGET ABOUT HER.
IT WILL COME BACK AND BITE HER IN THE ***.
ESPECIALLY BEING YOU TWO HAVE A SON TOGETHER.
SHE'LL GET TIRED OF THAT OLD MAN SOON, AND SHE'LL COME RUNNING BACK TO YOU, AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET HER,
2006-06-14 04:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Julie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to answer your question . If you can forgive her and she is willing to come back to you, get her back. Otherwise, get a wife for yourself, still forgive her..
2006-06-14 04:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Trying to be spiritual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋