How do you get over a brake up?

Question

How do you get over someone you love with everything you have and have been with them for so long and just let them go its harder then it sounds its so hard to move on and i don't know what else to do.. Advice

Answer 1

Break ups..its a really hard part..Knowing someone you love for so long and will end up nothing..But this will teach you a lesson..

Just remember, God always gave us reasons for everything.. even though its too much pain. He will not give you something that is not suitable for you. He will not give you problems that you will not able to handle with..He will give you the best when you least unexpected.

People come and go, you just need to accept that in our life, we met a lot of people...Some will stay and some are not..But you have to move on. Be grateful because you still have chance to meet people and make yourself better.

Make yourself busy and preoccupied.. Never look back the positive side. of him/her..Time will flies you will never know that you already forget her. You will just laughed for what you have done before.

Answer 2

Awww, I'm so sorry to hear of your split up. Heartbreak can be hard to deal with and the best remedy for the healing of the heart is time. How we recover is how we work on moving on rather than live for what we want and can't have.
If there is no chance of reconciliation then I'dvice taking something up to pre-occupy your mind. Something that maybe you can feel a achievement in it-set yourself a goal and aim for it. Avoid music that reminds you of that person although some can listen to it and learn their mistakes through it.
My ex had a really hard time getting over me when we split up. It took him several months to realise the cause of the split up. He was aware of the cause, but sometimes we are blind to our own failures and when love is lost, and regret sneaks in we realise what we really lost. True love is worth fighting for, whether between just two people or a family created by two people, but soar love effects all involved in the circle of love

Answer 3

Start dating again. I know that may sound a little cheesy but you just might meet someone BETTER!

That and time, are the only things that I know of, that worked for me.

Also being active and not sitting at home in a dark room pining.
It really helps to be active. Exersize and being in places where guys will flirt with you. That way, you know that there is someone out there waiting for someone just like you to come along.
It takes the edge off.

Answer 4

getting over break-up is really difficult especially with some you loved with all your heart and have been together for so long. it is better it happens now than for it to happen when you are both married. it is more difficult because then you have had issues and it can really be complicated. come to your answer, start doing things that makes you happy, go out meets and make new friends, change your wardrobe if possible, just give yourself a new look generally. if you can fleat around a little bit. before you know, you are back on track.

Answer 5

The one thing I do is to reason out the situation in my mind.
Then I conclude and say to myself that "everything happens for a good reason"
I know that it is true for I have seen it many times in my life but ably after a while.
Check this out, imagine you are inside a barrel for a long time. All you know is the sights and sounds of inside that barrel. One day you are required to get out. You don't want to, since you have grown acquainted with the environment inside there. Bam, you are kicked out, you feel hurt and all the other feelings just to realize that you can now see the whole world. You would have achieved much more.

Answer 6

I say chase them down and beg them back so don't have to get over it.

If that's not what you want, then lose all contact with them. Get rid of things that remind you of them, and try to find a new person. It's hard, but what else can you do. Honestly, you either mope about and cry, or you take the iniative and force yourslef to look on the brightside and move on.

Answer 7

I know it hard not to think of that person,well time will pass and you'll get over it,it might take alot of time but eventually you will get over that person,dont worry you'll be alright,for the mean time try to meet new people ,if you need someone to talk to im open!! believe me you'll be just fine, life goes on and there are many fish in the pond right?

Answer 8

Find a hobby.... seriously, not trying to insult you. Enroll yourself in a sport, go to the gym, take a course you wanted but had no time (a language may be interesting), a job (if you are working, do something more challenging... or do your work even better), go out with the guys more often.

The time will heal it... there's no other way, good luck :)

Answer 9

i went through the same situation, the problem with mine is she did the dumping, it happened 2 months ago and now i don't feel like i would go back to her if she asked me to, it takes time to get over someone, the easiest way to get over someone it to keep you mind busy, either you go out with another person (I don't recommend it because its not fair for the other person), you could do a hobby or just concentrate more on your work/school, your family, whatever you do just keep you mind busy and trust me after about 4 weeks or so, he/she won't seem important to you anymore. You know what i did to get over my exgirlfriend. i took up investing in large companies, i spend a lot of time reading companies so that i can invest my money in them and make money and so far so good, this helped me concentrate more in business and companies than in her, now i feel like she is not important to me anymore, i know he/she seems important to you right now but take up a hobby, concentrate on it and you will realise that there are more important things in life than girlfriend/boyfriend.

Answer 10

you can always eat chocolate.. gain weight.. and then depress over how you let yourself go instead of the break up..
or you can mentally untether yourself from him and so something better with your time than mope...
but then again.. in the long run i guess it kinda depends alot on how long you two have been together.. right?
sometimes when ur in a longterm relationship.. its harder to let fo of a person..