I always thought I was pretty straight (flinched at hugs, objected to the kissy-kissy cheek thing) but all of a sudden I have what you can only describe as "crush" on this woman. What the hell? She likes me too but I don't know what to do. I thought I wasn't gay. I don't think I'm gay anyway, I think I just like this one person. What do I do?
2006-06-13 21:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by oh_scheiss 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh and by the way, I'm not Christian so I don't believe that being homosexual will make me evil or cause God to smite me or something.
2006-06-13 21:18:11 · update #1
Not that I have anything against Christians.
But yeah, I've always been a rather butch girl, if I do say so myself. If that has anything to do with anything
2006-06-13 21:25:35 · update #2
If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes. There is nothing wrong with this. If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality. Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
2006-06-14 05:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are probably not gay, not that there's anything wrong with that. If you spend more time with women, some feelings of closeness or sheer excitement that will make you feel funny or confused can happen. I believe this is natural and you are probably just happy. If you spend most of your time with men, you may start acting like men or even dress up like they do. It's the connection you make with people you hang around with and women tend to be feminine and loving as that could be what you are feeling right now.
2006-06-13 21:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by xrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking one person who happens to be a girl doesn't may you gay at all. It's probably curiosity only. I say explore it and figure out what you really feel. I have this philosophy where I believe we are all biologically predetermined to be either straight, gay, or bi, but essentially we can fall for anybody.
So one girl crush=you not being a homo.
More than one girl crush, you might consider yourself queer.
2006-06-13 21:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm getting an identical situation plus intense respiration problems from something containing Diazathon (trojan horse killlers) i'm no longer able to get even a hundred ft from it or down i circulate, it is amazingly uncommon yet some human beings have problems. I even have found out to stay faraway from something regarding trojan horse or weed killing
2016-12-08 20:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might have some same-sex tendencies, but there's nothing wrong with that. you could be bisexual, but it seems you might have had a hint of that before now.
pursue the relationship if you feel comfortable doing so or even just talk to her about it, since she's attracted to you, too.
if you ever wanna chat, lemme know. i went through something similar a while back...
2006-06-14 01:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by water_loves_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quiet natural for everybody on this planet sometime or other to be in that state for quiet sometime ,by proper meantal alignment u can be right on the track so dont worry much about it and go ahead in ur life all the best
2006-06-13 21:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm goto a therapist and see where your mentality is, I'm sure that you're straight but maybe there are just unexplained bonding that occured in between you and her. You should be scraping all your memories and reposition yourself as where do you really want to be. G'luk. God Bless
2006-06-13 21:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by DayDay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not let nature take its course. Get together.If your the dominant partner make yourself known. She will respond if she wants to and desires. See each other often not just in public. Nature will take its course one way or the other, Good luck blessings
2006-06-20 21:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by johnirlam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find out U should try to spend a week without her. If U still are in a aggressive mood and things are not easier for you I think you should reconsider judging yourself.
2006-06-13 21:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Farhad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop focusing on the title of being gay and just go for what u want. When i began i wasnt gay i just liked one girl. Follow ur instincts
2006-06-14 04:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋