my boy frtiend of six years that i have two children says this condom is not his I know for a fact it is not mine I do not trust him though he said maybe it is mine I know in my heart something is not right but he is always with us or at work do you think something could be going on when I asked him about it a second time he became really upset and called our wedding because He says I do not trust him so why should we get married. I want to belive him especially because of how upset he got but where did it come from? Is this just an excuse for him to call off our long awaited wedding?
2006-06-13 21:08:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is his nose growing?
2006-06-13 21:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Was it used or still in the wrapper? Don't know if that matters or not though. I can't remember the name of the web site, but there is a web site that you can go to and they sell these kit things to do tests with to find out if someone is cheating. Call that Cheaters program,they can spy on him and find out if he is up to something. He may not be doing anything,but my ex husband use to get really upset and say he wasn't cheating and turn around and accuse me of cheating on him. I caught him, he was cheating on me,everything he accused me of, he was the one doing it. Just be careful and try to find out what is going on before marrying this guy. You already said that you don't trust him and don't let him or anyone tell you that no guy will want you because you have two kids, I have two kids and I'm remarried to a very nice man. Good Luck ^j^
2006-06-13 21:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you need to put a halt to this long awaited marriage.
That condom did not just crawl into the house. It came in somehow..
You can not trust this guy and By the way he is reacting angry because he is guilty...
You need to stop this relationship.. A relationship MUST be built on trust.. There are some serious problems here..
Most cheaters always continually blame their partner..
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-13 21:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the kids could have gone exploring and found the condom. Don't be so quick to judge. You scared him away from marriage by not trusting him.
2006-06-15 12:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not blame him. On such a silly point you only tried to find out the truth, and insisted to know if it belongs to him. On his denial, you must have been persistent to indirectly show off that you do not have any other man in your life. Now he has started suspecting you, hence he has decided to call off the marriage.
2006-06-13 21:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good questions??? But, did the condom accidently blow in off the street??? The big mystery??? He sounds like a control freak??? Be careful!!!
2006-06-13 21:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless his father was there or one of his "home-boys", girl GET-OUT!!!!! He actually, as you proclaimed, stated the condom was yours..Are you a "He-She?" There will NEVER be a wedding. Do not let yourself look like the FOOL> BAIL!!!!
2006-06-13 21:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the kids?
im just wondering, if they are teenagers or near that age, then you might want to watch them a little closer, for all you know, it could be one of theres, if they arent teens, then i sound like a freakin idiot
2006-06-13 21:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep an eye on him.
2006-06-13 21:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did get one thing right-HELL NO you don't trust him!
2006-06-15 05:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋