what if it involves another guy would you still share it even if it is just a fantasy that you never intend to try out
how would he react?
2006-06-13 20:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you should be able to share all of them. This way you dont have to hide anything from each other.
2006-06-14 02:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is a caring, loving guy, you should be able to share any fantasy with him. As someone else said, fantasies are exactly what they are. And those fantasies you can both enjoy together are the best.
2006-06-13 21:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by ksrinimurthy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can and should share you fantasies. They are just that fantasies and can add spice in the sexual area. Additionally, sometimes they can transfer over into real life and be even more enjoyable...
2006-06-13 20:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by J C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know how open minded and accepting he is. Like some of these responses said, if he's insecure it may cause him concern. Make sure he knows it has remained a fantasy only. Sometimes it's best to keep your fantasies to yourself, you have to decide. You know him best.
2006-06-14 04:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are exactly that, just fantasies - not based on any realistic expectation of action and are therefore totally non-threatening. You can both share and enjoy.
2006-06-13 21:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are part of sexual desires.. may be you can ask him what is his and make him open up more.. he may have more than you may have in stores!!.. Add yours in line with his and complement the way he wants. May be you both will compliment with more ideas and spice up all the fun in hot bed with your cool fantasies
2006-06-13 23:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by m_cyberfriend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on how secure your husband is if he cannot handle hearing about you with another man then it probally would not be a good idea, maybe you should start with a fantasy that includes another woman to boost his ego then ease the other man into the plan!
2006-06-13 21:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by roughgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i love my husband and would never fantase over another but if by chance i did no i wouldnt tell him bc that would hurt him and probably question his trust in me it might cause problems thatz not there such questions az cheatin espically if hes insecure but i dont have that problem bc my baby be puttin it down to me so i dont have the need or want to fantase about someone else
2006-06-14 04:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Guys like to feel that they are the only one on your mind. Especially don't do it if it is friend of yours, or even worse, his! If you have to, ask him what his fantasies are, then go from there.
2006-06-13 23:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by yourlivingword 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the think that relation is gonne effect, then it would be better not to share fantacies with ur partners
2006-06-13 21:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋