i can take it anymore,i try everything but all i end up doin is hatin me.i want out of my marrige,but if i walk away everyone will blame me for breakin up it,but my hubby is such a cheater lier.i hate tis,i can stand it wen he touch me,looks at me or evev talk to me.i feel like an imposer.ta more i be arond him i hate myself,he such a lil boy ta how he act,i dont know what to do.i try talkin to him but it no good,even we went to our priest,notthing has change,apart of me still love him ta y am still here.sometime i wish i can be put to sleep,i can take it,c i dont want to go and cheat like he does cause am better than ta,i just want out.am i wronge for feelin like tis.please help me *** to understand tis,ladies you who married is tis what married has to offer,cause i want out.i dont think he worth me stayin,i take care of me,so y should i stay.
2006-06-13 20:41:53 · 9 answers · asked by tigerisexxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello,
Seek counseling and help here and try to save it if at all... Talk to him and see if he is open to getting the help he needs with you. Seek marriage counseling too. If he continually cheats though and does not or refuses to change then you do have legal and biblical grounds for getting out and at least separating and even divorce if there is absolutley not resolving the marriage. If you need to talk i am here anytime for you.
2006-06-14 03:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are the better person for not cheating on him, because remember what goes around comes around, and you want to be able to tell the Judge truthfully that you have never cheated on him. Oh yeah and screw everyone! they are not the ones married to him and have to endure all of the suffering and humiliation, its your life and not theirs, and you should not have to suffer just to please everyone. I know you love him but your are doing a great harm to yourself by being married to him. And by the way get all the real estate you can when you divorce him.
2006-06-13 21:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gloomy paws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men change after you say i do i think they feel like they own you my husband to ,.we got into a fight right after the ceremony i should got it annul ed we were in vegas. it lasts about a year goodluck i dont put up with it i wear the pants and i tell him if you dont like it get the f---- out. i remind i survived without him
2006-06-13 20:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, firstly, it's called SPELL CHECK, look into it. Secondly, get out while you still can!! Even if they say it's your fault. So f-ing what?! Get out while you still have your self pride and dignity.
2006-06-13 20:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen Tiger,if your not happy then you should speak NOW!! you have every right to be happy,life goes on even if it hurt`s,you should find your strengh and tell him before it hurt`s you:) OK? life is short and there are many people who care about you!! be honest to him and
yourself.
2006-06-13 20:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Father and Husband 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple, just get divorced. It's better now because you don't have any kids... btw you can't spell for crap.
2006-06-13 20:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Best Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out. To hell with what other people say. Your happiness is paramount.
2006-06-14 00:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay...leave him no matter what anyone else thinks. You have to do what is best for you.
2006-06-13 20:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mizbehavin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel it that don't work tell gim to f off
2006-06-13 20:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Emmielulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋