i have this freind and she doesnt accept my decisons. It's like, i really want to ask this guy out and she is telling me not to ask him out because she thinks i am too young, but its up to me isnt it? she is telling me stuff that she thinks is right for her, and doesnt support me on this. she is truly letting me down. Do you think she is being a true friend? what should I do?
2006-06-13 20:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are too young, she's telling you the truth and truth can appear to be bitter at first. Hang on to true friends like her. You don't want friends that just tell you what you want to hear. The most ignorant ppl surround themselves with "Yes Men". Most ppl end up doing stupid things under peer pressure of the wrong kind and regret it later.
2006-06-13 20:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a freind like that in high school. My life revolved around her and basically she wanted me to ask permission if I went out with some one else. But yet we were best freinds and had a blast together. But 10 years later after graduation I have lost my freinds I had before her becuase they got sick of her. My best advice is to slowly but surely walk away from her and her control. Beleive me...it will get ugly. Good luck. It is not a healthy relationship
2006-06-14 03:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On one hand, it sounds like she's trying to protect you from getting hurt. In that case, she is trying to be a good friend. On the other hand she's trying to be "Little Miss Mommy", a name I call my daughter when she sticks her nose in where it doesn't belong. Tell your friend that she is not your mom and can not make decisions like that for you, only your mom can.
2006-06-14 03:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too young I think u should not ask him out..and why are depending on ur friend so much..its ur life and u should take decisions independently..
2006-06-14 03:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesson to her she might know something you don't. She is helping you.
2006-06-14 03:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you choose another friend
2006-06-14 03:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by shahana_raja2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are both of you? please tell so i can expand my answer
2006-06-14 03:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋