No, older is just different - from both perspectives, parent and child.
I mean your first little baby is the most exciting thing you ever saw - and the biggest, scariest responsibility you ever had! The younger can at first seem like an interloper, but they are just as wonderful as the first and you get a chance to try again without the mistakes you made the first time around.
Of course you don't seem to be able to get the same volume of pictures of the second as you did with the first (mostly because you can't keep a camera in your hand because someone always wants your attention) and the older one hates you because as you realize that maybe they were old enough sooner than you thought, the first one holds it as a point of honor that all that follow should suffer as they did.
Everything has good and bad points. Focus on the good of your circumstances and you will always be better off!
2006-06-13 20:26:09
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answered by carole 7
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Well I am older and depends on what you are asking about older. Better to be in a relationship with or just sex?
2006-06-14 03:22:42
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answered by ? 2
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me and my girlfriend have been dating 4 and year now and I'm 3 yrs older than her shes 13 and I'm 16. at times im asking myself is this right. what do her parents think about her going out with a mature older person. will they accept me. but me and her gets alone just fine and i love her. so my answer to u is that its okay to date an older person. just watch out cause older people in a relationship may look for different things than the youngest person does.
2006-06-14 03:39:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Better for what purpose and how old? No matter what, each individual is functioning at different capabilities and maturing (or not) at different rates. Chronological age itself doesn't really exist if you consider that years are marked by the earths' orbits of the sun. Real age isn't known until death, as in the 55 year old who died of a heart attack was really old but the 85 year old hang glider has got it goin' on!
2006-06-14 03:31:42
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answered by dzychase 1
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Depends of you, but I think older is better.
2006-06-14 03:23:02
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answered by Denicia 6
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depends,if a boy no bc a girl being older then the man is nasty/ if a girl could be BC my ex was 6 years older then me but i did not care
2006-06-14 03:26:53
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answered by Anonymous
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when where young we wont to hurry up and grow up. when we are older we look back and want to be young again. we are the age we are and nothing changes that. enjoy being who you are no matter what age. and yeh older to me is alot better in alot of ways
2006-06-14 03:23:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends. Some men gets better when they mature, some just do not grow up at all. It's case to case basis, really.
2006-06-14 03:22:28
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answered by Jo Ann 6
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i would say yes..if you are a woman and you go for an older man you will be happier. boys mature slower than girls and so after a certain age you just realize you could be dating someone like you-only their age is a bigger number.
2006-06-14 05:29:07
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answered by happy! 4
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hell yeah its better cuz you can see an find out things you never seen an new before an they make you fell like you are speacial like you are a baby.you would love it.advise keep yo gaurds up never put them down.meaning neva tell a boy u love them unless they say it first,but make sure they mean it.
2006-06-14 03:32:37
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answered by pooh bear 2
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