I have a bf for 5 yrs. I love him to death, I am planning to marry him in the future. I been chatting with guys on the internet but I don't like any of them at all. But sometimes they try to flirt with me and trying to talk to me about sex. and ask if we can have roleplay meaning phone sex. I tell no way but I always thinking of sex. I just want to see dick all the time. My bf is back home will I am 8 hours away from him. So I can't see him alot. I play with myself sometimes and always horny. I need some advice. He know that I am like that too. But what can I do about my getting horny all the time. I need some help. I need to stop thinking about sex.
2006-06-13 20:15:57 · 19 answers · asked by Stinky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when I chat, I don't do cam or mic. I just keeping thinking about it. I don't want to cheat on him. I love him but I think I can control when I around other guys.
2006-06-13 20:28:47 · update #1
The only reasons why I don't want to marry him soon, is because I want to wait until we are ready and have money for our wedding. Believe me we don't have money. I have just graduated from high school and he working hard for him to get where I am at.
2006-06-13 20:33:39 · update #2
Hey girl--first thing--calm the hell down--you're just simply going thru a phase--you're going to be just fine--you've started this new life--you've got seperation anxieties--you're lonely for your boo--all these things added to your age (you're beginning to really perk) and you've got double hot crazies going on---of course these guys are going to want some of you--you blame them--you're a hot property girl--but YOU OWN THAT--as far as this gotta gotta urge you've got--work on that for yourself--it's just fine to do so--you know it helps--right ? and you know you like it so what's the problem there ? Just stop slamming yourself around about all of this--I'm picking up on a touch of this toying with the idea of some fun on the side thing---I'm gonna tell you to not jepardize this five year thing by getting stupid but I am going to remind you that you ain't married yet---so whose going to be directing your traffic but you ?? Take charge of your life girl--and stop freaking out about these things just slow down--analyze and put it all to work for yourself---you're gonna be just fine !!! Love
2006-06-13 20:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to find a sex therapist or a SA (sexaholic anonymous) group. Or, have your bf make tapes showing you all the dick you want while he's gone. If he can be online with a cam... he could be with you in that way also. Maybe he needs to get online with IM and chat with you. I know I would love to be able to be with my bf all the time, but it's impossible. I'm lucky though... I can turn guys on through my words on line and over the phone and not get excited myself. There's nothing wrong with self-gratification. You might try getting a shower massage by Waterpic... or even a dildo.. if you don't want to stop, but just satisfy until you can be with your bf.
2006-06-14 03:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by 1Jazzy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty normal to me. You are a human being and we do think about sex. Maybe just need to get more in touch with your sexuality. That doesn't mean to go and have sex with every guy you see. It means to dig deep within yourself and find out why you are having these feelings.
You should check out all possibilities. There are a few mental disabilities that include a symptom of sexual promiscuity. Take some time out for yourself and then go from there.
2006-06-14 03:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by brittanyprovidence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this, exercising, gym , yoga, fast from the morning till the evening,(lack of food and drink is very good for losing desire),
try to get married soon
and if after all these still u feel like that, u will need to see a good doctor, u may have some unbalance hormonal activity or unbalanced brain activity, just a good treatment with a good psychitrist will make u feel better, ,,because if u say that even playing with yourself and u still feel like that, and u have a boyfriend, so it s not normal, go for a check to the doctor, it maybe related to a serious desease
2006-06-14 03:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest about the situation don't jeopardize your relationship over sex if you feel as though you could then you need to rethink about getting married i understand human nature and we all have needs but you have too much to lose over dick pop in a porno and get a toy but don't cheat because it will come back on you and karma is a biatch
2006-06-14 03:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by chevelle c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just a sexual person. what are you all zodiac signs? It could be that his sex to you is just wonderful, and you want it all the time. I say don't play with yourself (not saying it's wrong) and when you all get around eachother it will be so steamy! because that's somthing you've been longing for and waiting for. But ....It takes self discipline. and control.
2006-06-14 03:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Fortissimo. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont necesarliy have to stop thinking abotu sex, just find ways to please yourself when your boyfriend isnt around. Trust me I know its frustrating, I live in Los Angeles and my boyfriend lives in San Francisco, its a 9 hour drive. Invest in a good vibrator ;) I recommend the silver bullet.
2006-06-14 03:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read holy bible and think about the sex as a sin
2006-06-14 03:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by fmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR 5 YEARS , AND YOU LOVE HIM . GET MARRIED / MOVE IN WITH HIM / HAVE ALL THE SEX . YOU WANT .
2006-06-14 03:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, have your bf contact you, IM each other and do that internet sex crap with him, that might help your...whats a good word for it..."hornyness"...that word is crap, but its the best that came to mind
2006-06-14 03:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋