okay i am a teen and i have been with this guy for like 11 months! i totally adore him but... he got a hickey from another girl and i am not sure if he feels the way i feel about him. i admit i did have this big crush on another guy (maybe he tried to get back at me) also i kinda made out with someone else. but when we are together we are like totally in loved. i only see him about 4 to 5 times a month and we talk on the phone ALOT. i am unsure if he is cheating. Do you think his feelings are hurt because i made out with someone or is it time to move on!?? Please give your opinions and advice. Also if you want more deatils about this please email me at Lovezel05@yahoo.com
2006-06-13 20:07:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think about the times when you are not with this guy, do you feel like your relationship is helping you or hurting you? It sounds like you could be in an non-exclusive relationship, which is OK as long as it's not causing either of you more harm than good.
I would suggest that you examine your own feelings as best you can and decide if you want to ask this guy for a committed, exclusive relationship - Is he really what you want? Once you tell him that's what you want and clearly define it, then you can see what he says. If you feel you can trust him offer to wipe the slate clean and pursue an honest monogamous relationship with him. Then if he strays it's time to move on.
Just be sure that continuing a relationship with this guy is what you want. If this whole situation is driving you crazy and upsetting you, take that in to consideration.
A breakup is painful, but it will get better. Staying in a bad relationship can just keep the distress alive.
We learn many lessons in life, most of them are not easy. Everyone here can give you their opinion, but none of us are you. Ask yourself "Am I a happier and better person over all by staying in this relationship?" And Listen to your answer from within and follow it.
2006-06-13 20:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and grow up.
2006-06-13 20:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by moniiluv17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to move on. fi the both of you have been with other ppl it shows you both its time to move on.
2006-06-13 20:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋