My parents and his parents are both going out tonight to this wedding party but kids cant go. So my bf said he will come over. We will be alone and recently he has said stuff about having sex. I dunno what to do. im 15 n he is 16-nearly 17. I think he will want to do it tonight but i dunno what to do or what to expect cuz its my first time....Help me plz!
2006-06-13 19:40:17 · 14 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep cool and give him a good BJ.
2006-06-13 19:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by K J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20/m and i have not had sex yet. im not some goodie goodie catholic boy. just i feel that sex should wait for that one right person. ur only 15 u still got ur whole life ahead of u to live. thats just how i feel towards it. yeah there is protect too but they are not goin to work all the time. dont take the risk and throw ur life away
2006-06-14 08:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by bigd3122003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to lose your virginity and in the process lose you self-respect? If you arfe not ready, do not engage in sex with him. Tell him you do not want to. That is all. Do not say many thing and many explanations. Just say you do not like it. Sex is not everything in a boy-girl relationship.
But if you are ready to risk pregnancy, AIDS, and the possibility of being a b***h. then go ahead.
2006-06-14 03:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by seabug_46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're not ready for sex, so don't do it. You can fool around a little, but stop when things get too intense for you. You're young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you to have sex.
2006-06-13 19:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mizbehavin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, your virginty is the most precious thing a girl can give a guy. Make sure you love him. Don't just give it up. My finace and I did not wait until we are married but we knew we would get married. Something in his eyes I saw my future. Life is so crazy, dont' just give it up unless you love him a great deal.
2006-06-13 20:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by msoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if u do decide to do it use protection, second talk with him and c what he says, if ur not ready then tell him because all men should respect a girls descion visa versa. i really cant tell u much because i dont know how u feel about him or what ur situation is with him. if ur ready then go for it if not tell him ur not ready yet or ur not sure explain to him that if u do do it than no means no. but it's not my descion to make it's urs
2006-06-13 19:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by kskid1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who can really answer your own question. You might want to ask yourself the following questions before going any further:
Are you ready to have sex?
Do you love him?
Do you want him to be your first?
Does he love you?
Do you trust him?
Remember, girls never forget their first. If you have any doubts, don't do it. He would understand if he truly cares for you.
2006-06-13 19:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by TheMagicWand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play around..cuddle..kiss..etc..but DONT have sex.ure young.theres going to be lots of cute guys in the future..y waste the good pleasure tonight? when u know u want to do it with someone much much cuter in the future...well..the question is.. Are you Ready to Have sex??
2006-06-13 19:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it dear you are to young you will have plenty of time for all that when you get older if he cares about you at all he will wait to when you are ready just relax enjoy the night with no complications will have plenty in the long run.
2006-06-13 20:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide first that do u want to have it or not if u feel that u want to have it then surely go for it else u neednt to involve in it just to satisfy ur bf
2006-06-13 19:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to that...... I do NOT think you are ready or you would not be asking........ say NO real loud and smile and then either he can leave or stay and watch a good movie.............. God bless
2006-06-13 19:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋