Is he cheating?

Question

When my husband arrives home from work, I use his cell when I leave the house. For the past 2 weeks, he has erased the call history on the phone! Why??

Answer 1

YES THAT IS A RED FLAG IF BEFORE HE WOULD NEVER ERASE HIS CALL HISTORY AND NOW HE IS. THERE IS SOMEONE THAT HE IS TALKING TO THAT HE DOESNT WANT YOU TO FIND OUT ABOUT. YOU SHOULD CHECK TO SEE IF HIS PHONE HAS A NOTEPAD. IF IT DOES THE LAST NUMBER THAT HE DIALED WILL STILL BE ON THE PHONE EVEN IF HE ERASED HIS CALL HISTORY AND ANOTHER THING THAT YOU CAN DO IS REGISTER HIS ACCOUNT ON LINE AND CHECK HIS CALLS YOU WILL SEE EVERYTHING SO HE COULD ERASE EVERYTHING AND YOU STILL WOULD FIND OUT. THESE ARE JUST SOME THINGS THAT YOU COULD DO TO FIND OUT IF HE IS OR ISNT CHEATING.

Answer 2

I don't think anyone can tell you the answer to this except him. Could it be that he's erasing it because you challenged him on a number prior to the history wipeout? We tend to cause these negative reactions by doing something we think we've done subtly and they take it to heart. He may be erasing it to prevent questions and has inadvertently created more suspicion. Sometimes they just can't win. If he's coming home on time and not going out all night... when would he have the time to cheat? Does he have a day job where he could slip out? A lot of men may have a fantasy woman they just talk to on the phone... what harm could that do if you can account for his whereabouts at all time?

You need to get off the computer and go ask him upfront.

Answer 3

You think that his cheating then you must have reason to believe so is there anything more then the cell phone. it gives reason to believe that there is something he doesn't what known. But then again why would he leave the phone behide knowning that there will be a time that he leaves it unerased. Just come out with it and say guess there wasn't any calls today and see what reply you get. Or call the cell number a few times yourself in the day just to say hi i'm thinking of you and see if he erased it too.

Answer 4

I erase my call history on an almost daily basis. It is not because I'm cheating on my husband, It is to keep from using too much memory space on my phone. If Your man is having an affair, I would like to think that he is not stupid enough to realize that you can get a detailed printout of your bill!!! Good Luck.

Answer 5

if your husband has been erasing his calls on his phone and that is something he has never done before and you think something of it confront him do not ever as sum you know what they say about people that as um things so just talk to him when he answers you ,you will be able to tell if his lying or not so then take it from there you are the only one who will know the truth no one else so good luck.

Answer 6

i think u r being too suspicious.if your husband has been erasing his calls on his phone and that is something he has never done before and you think something of it confront him do not ever as sum you know what they say about people that as um things so just talk to him when he answers you ,you will be able to tell if his lying or not so then take it from there you are the only one who will know the truth no one else

Answer 7

well he could be to be honest.. but there are other signs you should be looking for..... 1. change in his dress style 2. no real excuse for where he has been when coming home late 3. gets angry when you do ask, (and that is a sure sign). 4. secret phone calls, (which evidently is yes ) 5. never allows you to go out with him on certain nights.... keep track !! 6. a relationship change, intimacy, talking, does he ignore you ??? watch and listen, before you accuse tho........... God bless

Answer 8

WHILE THAT IS A SIGN HE COULD BE CHEATING, IT'S NOT ENOUGH. YOU NEED WAY MORE THAN THAT TO CONFRONT HIM. JUST BE MORE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS. BE MORE AWARE OF HIM AND WHAT HE'S DOING AND WHO HE'S TALKING TO. CHECK THE CELL PHONE BILL.

DON'T BE TOO OBVIOUS CUZ IF HE'S NOT CHEATING, YOU JUST MAY PUSH HIM INTO IT BY BEING OBSESSIVE AND THEN YOU'RE REALLY SCREWED. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK. KEEP YOUR INVESTIGATION ON THE DOWN LOW GIRL, DON'T BE ALL UP IN HIS FACE, THEN YOU MAY NEVER KNOW THE TRUTH.

Answer 9

He erases his calls because he knows you check them. Sounds like you know something is going on in his mind and that's why you checked. Unless you are a very jealous person and he is sick of the drama. "You know the answer better than we do"

Answer 10

If you realy want to know just check the call history when the bill comes in. I wouldn't jump to anything right away if I were you though. wait and if you have any questions after, just ask.