2006-06-13 19:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, I'm 27 and still a virgin. Others may tell you differently but there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you haven't found someone you want to do it with or haven't felt connected then why bother?
2006-06-13 19:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gozer the Carpathian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but the person who said "27" is pushing it =)
Personally, I was 17 my first time. On the other hand, my wife was almost 23 and she said it was worth the wait.
I think it's really great that you've waited. And I say that completely independently of any special religious values (I don't belong to a religion).
Just wait until it feels right to you. Find a man who appreciates that you waited. Maybe one who's a virgin himself, and you could share it together (that feeling rules, from personal experience, knowing that it's the first time for both of you) I know I would far rather be with a virgin than the hoes that boink everything that moves. And honestly in our generation it seems like EVERYONE is a freakin' hoe. So it's nice to see that they're not all that way.
just have faith in yourself and be confident.
-dp
2006-06-14 02:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by d_x_pcm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a 19 year old virgin. You will know when the time is right for you. Dont be rushed by anyone, especially your friends. Once you lose it, its gone and you can't bring it back. Good on you
2006-06-14 02:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad...in fact, my best friend waited until she was 21...10 years later, she now has a very healthy and exciting sex life (so far as I can tell from our conversations). She's happy she waited, I wish I had done the same. I remember her feeling a bit like she was 'missing out' on something...trust me, it's worth it to wait! Regretting a bad decision is much worse than just taking your time.
2006-06-14 02:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by shescrafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me.... what mean if you are still a virgin i think that's a great after all and you should proud of yourself for that and don't make them pull you to the same valley you must be confident about what are you doing and trust yourself a little bet 19s year old girls...
do you know the girls like a diamond it is good for the diamond to be kept in a safe place to preserve its shining for the right person who is really deserve it..
2006-06-15 14:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by HAR H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
Hold onto your values and virginity. This dose not make you more a woman, or a man.
At your age,you should focus on your education, your career, your self.
Your friends will likely end up with unwanted babies, STD's, and be going from one relationship to another.
Wait until you're ready to make a full time commitment to someone, your husband, or wife.
Believe me, you'll be glad you waited.
2006-06-14 02:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by paula b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS WENT OUT AND JUMPED OFF THE EMPIRE STATE BLDG, WOULD YOU FOLLOW THEM? SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE THE ONLY MIND OF YOUR OWN IN THE GROUP. BE PROUD OF THE FACT THAT YOU DIDN'T "CAVE IN" TO PRESSURE, BE PROUD OF THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE SAVED YOURSELF FOR THE RIGHT TIME AND PERSON. BE PROUD THAT YOU ARE AN INDIVIDUAL AND NOT AFRAID TO WALK TO YOUR OWN BEAT! BE PROUD OF YOURSELF FOR SHOWING YOURSELF RESPECT. JUST BE PROUD......I KNOW I AM PROUD OF YOU, 19 AND STILL A VIRGIN. YOU HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. IT'S A BIG WORLD OUT THERE AND THE WORLD NEEDS MORE INDIVIDUALS LIKE YOURSELF TO WALK TO YOUR OWN TUNE. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN EVER WALK IN YOUR SHOES BUT YOU. NO ONE KNOWS MORE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL THAN YOU. THAT WASN'T SO "BAD" WAS IT?
2006-06-14 02:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Gretta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I'm 18 and most of my friends have done it, this is a choice you have to live with weather or not to do it before marriage or just do it know but know this off of knowing people who didn't wait they didn't stop doing it they craved it which really messed there life up
2006-06-14 18:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by b_man_93534 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in my 20's and many of my friends are still virgins, guys and girls. Don't settle and don't do anything before you are ready - the most important judge of yourself is you!
2006-06-14 02:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by nickelle84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad. You are the one who has to decide when it's right for you. And also who the right person is. You're friends aren't the ones living your life. You are. Do what's best for you.
2006-06-20 21:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋