For the 10 years I have been married to the same man, He has NEVER given me a orgasm. What is the deal?? He has one every time! I then have to act satisfied then do something about it myself later. Im 29, have I not found the spot yet??
2006-06-13 19:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by milissaleetaylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He should understand ,You are also a human being,you have your needs.Talk to him
2006-06-13 19:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by sweetu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to your ob/gyn. Since they know a woman's body, they have knowledge about G-Spots and all sorts of stuff. If you and your husband have been married for 10 years, you both should be able to sit down and talk things out. Just make sure that you and him agree on whatever new things to try well before the sex takes place so his feeling don't get hurt. This maybe hard for you to do but the next time you have sex don't act satisfied. Ask him to try some thing different. Start with something easy so he doesn't get fed up with it if it's not satisfying. If you think he may feel uncomfortable doing some things you would really love for him to try, it might make him feel better if you make the first move. Do to his body what you want done to your body, if possible. Put his hands on the part(s) you want him to give close attention to if foreplay is the issue. If the intercourse is what you would like to have adjusted to fit your needs, maybe you should get on top. This way you can guide his penis while its inside of you. Even better than that, create some new positions. Just let loose and have lots of fun.
2006-06-14 02:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to him about what does and doesnt feel good for you? When he is doing things for you do you tell him faster or slower, harder or softer? Every woman is different (so I've found lol) Some like to be tickled some dont. Some are visual while some arent. I have only found one woman that can have an orgasm just by penetration. Most need the stimulation of a finger or two until they are ready to go.Tell your man what you like. things you want to see, feel, touch be touched. He just might surprise you. Good luck. If you want to talk more my email is banjo4453@yahoo.com.au
2006-06-14 02:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brendan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to give yourself a Orgasm. You dont need him. Learn what makes you tick, your spots that when you touch turns you on. man do this and its called masturbation and the same names is given for a woman. Do it and you will be much happy. Learn to play with yourself. There is nothing wrong with.. its actually a good thing. Use toys etc it needed. Have a affair or a one day/ night stand if need be but that may get risky...........
2006-06-14 02:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina. Let him mess with the inside of your thigh when doing this.
2006-06-17 04:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they sure do hon. Buy a book and find out where it is or ask your doctor or gynecologist. Have your husband give you oral and help you find the spot you are looking for. How do you take care of it later? If you masturbate and climax you have found your spot. Buy a vibrator or orgasm beads or something to help you do it.
2006-06-14 10:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, YOU haven't shown HIM the spot yet. Obviously if you can satisfy yourself, you've figured out what to do to get there... only you haven't been communicating with your husband about it. The best way to have great intercourse is to take the time to let eachother know what feels good and what doesn't. Eventually you'll figure out what works for the both of you.
2006-06-14 02:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a spot its just about finding it. If it has really been this long for you then as a wife you must be honest with him and find out what you're into such as me and mine do role playing night out on the town type stuff and anything else that strikes our fancy. just remember if you love him and he loves you when you find it the past ten years will dissapear and you'll have a better one then you could ever hope to have by yourself.
2006-06-14 02:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women can't orgasm through just intercourse. My suggestion is to have him try oral and guide him based on what works for you. If that works then once you're taken care of, work on taking care of him.
2006-06-14 02:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey may be the problem that u need more things done to be satisfied ask him to go for those take more interest in foreplay it will surely help u
2006-06-14 02:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find what gets you off and teach him to please you properly. If you never speak up you will probably never be satisfied by him. If he gets mad about it then he is selfish. Sex is too awesome to not get full pleasure. Find someone who wants to please you. You should never fake an orgasm.
2006-06-14 02:09:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋