should me and my significant other move in together we are going to have a child together but i dont see that as a reason alone and i dont want him to think i dont love him but im stuck as what to do
2006-06-13 18:00:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe that soul searching never fails us. There are many different factors to consider: monogamy, playing "House", trust, finance, marriage, etc. If your not sure about these things and more then u should keep the relationship as it is. Just because u r having someones child that does not mean u are destined to be together forever. Sometimes rushing makes matters worse. If u 2 love each other unconditionally, no matter your decision, that love will continue to grow w/ strength. Just a suggestion but u can always wait until after your child is born. Children come w/ plenty of demands & no instructions. That can put a tremendous amount of strain on a relationship. Even though both parties may love one another Love isn't always the only ingrediant needed. Compromise & communication play very large parts in a "Union" as well. The Pros/Cons list is another way to make an important decision. Good Luck! whatever your decision may be.
2006-06-13 18:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse you should move in together if you are having a baby together. Your child deserves the chance to have his or her mommy and daddy together. Plus you are both responsible for this child so if there is a chance for you to live together you should. If you are not in love with this person, maybe you could do something platonically....like roommates.
2006-06-14 01:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by carleencapaldo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea. Why don't you get married. That would ensure that your child has the best possible future. If you are going to have a child together, why not take on the some freakin' responsibility?
2006-06-14 01:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason you guys should be moving in together is because you both can't bear to spend another night alone. don't do it just cause your having a baby, thats the wrong resaon.. and the baby will end up suffering if u 2 break up cause u moved into 2gether for the wrong reasons !!
2006-06-14 01:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, if you're pregnant and still unsure about moving in together, it's probably a good time to re-evaluate the whole relationship, because it seems like something's missing and/or just not right.
2006-06-14 01:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him??? You shoulndt move in together for the childs sake, Think about the future.... do you see yourself staying with this guy???? If you are having doubts you really need to think this out! Good Luck
2006-06-14 01:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by iloveprincy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that moving together and getting married is the best thing to do. Of course it will be great to love him, too.
2006-06-14 01:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bactan N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This decision is entirely yours - I simply recommend you base it only on whether or not you would be ready to say yes to moving in if you were not expecting..
Living together is difficult enough in the interim just trying to adjust withouth throwing the mix of hormones up in the air and seeing where they land..
Good luck!!
2006-06-14 01:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by offerofopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both agree there is no problem. My wife and I lived together for over a year before we got married.
2006-06-14 01:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in together if that isn't what you want. If you really don't want to, it might be detrimental to your relationship with your significant other.
2006-06-14 01:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by atari_girl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋