I don't sleep around, yet when I do find a guy and he sleeps over then my roommate get piss at me. She did this with my ex, yet I was supportive towards her feelings. When she said that she didn't want him there then I switch our plans. Now I'm with a new guy and I brought him to her birthday dinner. I honestly didn't see anything wrong with it. Yet she was piss as hell that I would bring someone to the dinner. It was pretty late so he slept over and now she's giving me the silent treatment. I don't get it. As long as they don't bother her or walk around naked, then don't I have a right to invite people over to stay for the night.
2006-06-13 17:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by sweetsadmelody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well.... it depends on the person, maybe she simply doesn't feel comfortable with other people in her space
For example, I live with my family, and my sister's bf is almost all-day-long here, he's a very nice guy, but i just don't feel comfortable because I can't sing(scream) the songs in my computer, I can't hang around in my pj's, and can't get a shower at night because he's here and i can't get my glass of milk in my pj's when he's around... details like that are like a pebble in the shoe.
Or maybe your friends are there too late, and/or are too lousy for her to study properly... talk to her and try to make an agreement.
Good luck!!
2006-06-13 18:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy can stay the night as long as he leaves when or before you leave - that's the only rule I had on the subject.
Why she's so pissed that you would bring someone to a dinner? I don't get, unless she specifically told everyone not to bring a date. I hate to take it here but, do you think she has a thing for you?
2006-06-14 01:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by theory75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run things by your roommate before you go head and deicide for yourself to do them: if you thought she wouldnt mind and she "Piss" then you misinterpret her reaction.
It could be a number of things why shes upset that you bring guys over: maybe shes not presentable and or damn it she wants some alone time. She maybe uncomfortble with just knowing theres some guy in her place.
The times you were supportive to her are different from her to you: you two are different ppl, so talk it out and find a middle ground.
2006-06-14 01:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE GETS MAD CAUSE YOU BRING HOME A GUY LET HER SHE AINT YOUR MOTHER IF YOU PAY EVERYTHING 50-50 SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO TELL YOU WHO YOU CAN HAVE AND WHO YOU CANT IF YOU BROUGHT HOME A DIFFERENT GUY EVERY NIGHT IT IS YOU NOT HER LET HER GET PISSED BUT IF I WAS YOU I WOULD SIT DOWN AND ASK HER WHAT HER PROBLEM IS WITH YOU DOING THIS MAYBE YOU AND HER CAN WORK SOMETHING OUT
2006-06-14 01:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel like my space was being invaded when i had a room mate and she would do that. It was hard enough to deal with 1 person, much less more that doesnt pay the bills.
2006-06-14 01:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by chasidy 13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jealousy issue there. tell her to get over it or move out if yall are paying 50-50.
2006-06-14 01:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy of course!!!
2006-06-14 01:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by skycloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I be the next guy?
2006-06-14 00:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Haku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋