I have been married to my husband for a year in 3 days. I am also pregnant with his baby and I still really like a good friend of mine, I really don't know how to do this. As far as getting rid of the feelings that I have for him. Can you PLEASE HELP ME AND TELL ME HOW I CAN RESOLVE THIS?
2006-06-13 17:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by mistyrussell2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get him (the friend) out of your life and just chose to be happy with your husband after all you married him for a reason.
2006-06-13 17:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing when I was pregnant with my husband's baby. We had been married three years and I thought this would bring us closer together. It didn't. If your husband really loves you and you care for him, work thru it and stay with him, but if you're not sure, then keep the friend in the picture. Just don't make a decision right now, when you are pregnant it's hard to keep your emotions in check, so just take a breath and wait till the baby is born to make a final decision. Just keep your friend close, having a good friend is not adultery. God Bless and good luck.
2006-06-13 17:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by mamawjackie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put more effort into your marriage and pregnancy. Your marriage is a new one and there's always adjustments and changes as you get used to it. You're married now so Keep your distance from the friend. You do mean that you want to get rid of feelings you have for your friend right? Or did you mean your husband?
Start reminding yourself of the commitment you made to your husband on your wedding day and how happy you are to have a child with him. Imagine and plan how you want your life with your family to be and make it happen. Good luck! We all have had interesting first, second, third, etc years of marriage. It's a fun and fabulous ride!!!!
2006-06-13 17:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by aidanmakes3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married and pregnant with his child!!!And now you decide to admit that you have feelings for a friend.NO NO NO!It dosen't work like that.Okay, I get that our heart tells us who to love.But if so, we don't marry someone else and then get pregnant to complicate things.The best thing for you to do is stay away from the friend. Don't put yourself in that situation for something to happen or for you to feel anything.Think baout why you married your husband and got pregnant with his child in the first place.There's got to be something good in him for you to have married the guy.Stay away from the friend!!!!You are Married and pregnant.Work on your marriage and get ready for your new child.Stay occupied and worry about your life and what matters most.
2006-06-13 17:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living a lie. You should never have gotten married let alone conceived a child together. Before it gets to far, you need to really look at your life. You are selfish. Your husband loves you and you are carrying his baby, yet you are thinking of another. Shame on you.
2006-06-13 17:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for 1 thing could this be pregnancy hormones talking or are you sure if you are then you really need to think about this child your going to bring into this world its hard having children and raising them does this other guy feel the same way would he be there for you and the child and what is best for your child how will you feel in the future ask self ALOT of questions before you do anything how well do you know this other guy is all this worth risking your marriage over good luck God Bless
2006-06-13 17:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should share your feelings with him. Let him know what's on your mind. Even though he might not agree with what you are going to do at least he knows how you feel. You can still like ur friend, but don't take it any farther than that. If I were you I would try not to think of him as more than a friend it's probably going to be hard but u can do it.
2006-06-13 17:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a wh0re in your mind and worry about your baby and baby's daddy. God no wonder the divorce rate is so high!
2006-06-20 12:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by ^v^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE MARRIED NOW IT IS ABOUT TIME THAT YOU GET OVER THIS THING WITH YOUR FRIEND YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND ARE ABOUT TO START A FAMILY NOW DONT LET THIS COMPLICATE YOUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE IT WILL
2006-06-13 19:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do everything you can to save your marriage. Go to counseling and stay away from your so called good friend.
2006-06-13 17:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋