do i tell my wife?

Question

been married almost 10 yrs, never cheated, a week ago or so i almost kissed a very close young female friend of mine, we both Really wanted to but didnt, do i tell my wife ??

it started out as a very innocent relationship between us, she even has watched our son, it just really got out of hand as of the last couple months, i worst part is the only reason it didnt happed was the fact that people were around to see us

Answer 1

NO NO NO

Answer 2

NO@! You recognized you had an impulse there. It means you are human. Why should you destroy the trust you have with your wife for something that almost happen? Because once you open those can of worms she will already have you sleeping with every women and especially the women every time you leave the house. You will destroy the trust for an impulse. It is not worth it. Learn by your mistakes. Just the fact that you are tormented about this means you have already learned your lesson. Why hurt her too. Good luck.

Answer 3

I have been married for ten years myself with that being said all I can say is that you know as well as I do the importance of being honest with your wife is. However you know your wife better than I do. You know how she is going to react better than I do. If it were me I would tell my wife and tell her what made me stop in the first place. Yes she might be upset but with ten years behind you I do believe that you both can work it out

Answer 4

Stay away away away from the friend and don't tell your wife about it. But if you do ever kiss another woman, your wife will know. We always know. The universe has a way of putting people in our path that knows what our husbands are doing and they tell us. (Just keep that in the back of your mind at all times)

Answer 5

it depends.If you are going to make sure that you don't kiss her and perhaps keep a little distance from her(the friend) and really want things to work well between you and your wife, you'd be better off not telling her b/c nothing happened and she may get suspicious.However I also believe it is good to be honest.So if she asks you,tell her the truth otherwise just don't do it again..or i should say don't almost kiss again.good luck!

Answer 6

Ok, the key word here is "ALMOST" You did not kiss anyone, just thought about it. Snap out of it and move on! Don't even think of getting in another situation like this one...the guilt alone can kill you...never mind your angry wife if she finds out. Do not tell her, there's no point.

Answer 7

no don't tell her, as everyone in a relationship will eventually find themselves in a position where they are attracted to someone else. What you should do is think seriously about how you can avoid being tempted to cheat on your wife, if you love her then you will be strong and resist temptation, just think about how you would feel if she was to do it to you.

Answer 8

Hey buddy!!.,I admire you.,.,I know what you feel.,THat also happen to my long time bf now.,A girl was supposed to attract him by hugging him.,even if my bf is drunk he didnt like the way that B17ch act., But you know he tell me all what happen., On the first reaction I got mad and also teased her for that girl coz i knew that girl also, but he say sorry so much, i know he told me everything and so do i, thats why our relationship grow and grow much even stronger than before, although we are both far from each other we still tell soem things that happening to our daily life. this will make your relationship even fruitful dear.

Answer 9

Even if you did it or not, in your mind it is done. That's why you need to know if you wife should know.
Either you tell her or not, in your case you'll cheat her on other occasion and ... another USA story.

Answer 10

Yes. After 10 years she deserves to know. Poor her. Good luck to you.

Answer 11

No - what good would it do? You stopped yourself; now try to figure out what brought you to that point in the first place and go from there.