i work with a guy and im attracted to him. im kinda scared to ask him does he have a girlfriend or better yet does he even like me. ladies why are men so tricky now adays? any way if you guys have any good suggestions, please help. also what are some clues that you could look at to see if a guy likes you?
2006-06-13 17:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does he make any kind of contact with you?
Do your eyes ever meet?
Does he talk to you at all ever?
Why not ask him the questions you have?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
2006-06-13 17:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say just ask him, you might just be letting off something that tells him that your feeling him anyway.
Dont play the games: Do you have a girlfriend cause i find you attractive..
I'll give you some clues but that might just be him being a guy whose sweet:
If he comes over to you for no reason just to say hi or mess with you: it could be that hes bored but also that he likes you
Small talk- again guy really dont do small talk unless their crazy bored, and the topics on what he talks about: if he talks about the things he likes instead of just the weather: he might be feeling you
it depends on the guy and what he like to do if he finds a lady attractive guys are all different: Just ask, unless you dont want to mess up a job code ethic if thats not a problem ask.
2006-06-13 17:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of ways to find out if he has a girlfriend or not.. tell him you're going somewhere, and ask him if he thinks him and his girlfriend would like to go.. he would either say.. i do or dont have a girlfriend...
men... and tricky.. hmm... now adays.. all the days.. hehe... you just need to be straight up with him in that area. tell him you're not going to play games.
it's hard to say what clues you could look out for, because if he's shy.. he may not outwardly show that he's attracted to you... but if he's more outgoing, i would definitely say flirting would be a clue!!!
2006-06-13 17:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you say hi to him, kinda touch his arm as you say hi and smile. Then leave it at that. Watch to see how his behavior changes. If he seems more nervous around you, then he's just shy, and its all good to just ask if he has a girlfriend. If he doesnt seem nervous after that, then he'll either hit on you, or he's probably not interested or he has a girlfriend. Give him a perfect opportunity for him to talk to you when you and him are alone if it's possible.
2006-06-13 17:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was me.... I would try to see if that person is looking, and if that person does it alot, than the answer is right in front of you. Other one is just ask him... and find out if hes taken or what not, but do look for obvious signs.
2006-06-13 17:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shh! its 2006 baby dont be scared its not like your asking him to sleep with you you're just going to ask if she has a gf, its ok...
2006-06-13 18:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥switie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to him like a friend. start with subject from work and when its more comfterble and the more you 2 talk the more you will find out about him and him about you. ask things like wat r u doing this weekend, and wat he likes to do after work. with no time at all youll know all you need to know about him.
2006-06-13 17:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋