i have been told i am a really nice guy so it doesnt make sence.. can someone help me out and tell me why i cant get a date? btw i have been told i am hot
2006-06-13 17:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by Dark Soul 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Maybe its just your approach towards things. But you do seem like a nice guy. Maybe you should talk to girls first, then when they feel comfortable then ask them out. But not to be mean your avatar looks a little scary maybe change it then people will change their description of u. But e-mail me and we can chat.
2006-06-13 17:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey. im just your age. im 14, blond hair, blue eyes! i have the same problem. im always told im hot or beautiful, and a sweet and funny person. it used to make me wonder the same thing as you. but then i realized that just because you look or act a certain way cant create an attraction. i know this sucks, but we really just have to be patient. also, in your question, you were putting a lot of emphasis on ur looks and not enough on ur personality, try to make that shine..
ps- most girls prefer guys to ask them out! maybe they're waiting for you! most girls i know love to be asked out, but rarely ever do the asking.
2006-06-14 00:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You believe you are hot and maybe you really are. Thing is kid, you need to express yourself, don't wait for a girl to come close, you have to look for her. When I was your age (I'm 22 now) I used to practice in front of mirror how to ask a girl to go out, Too much practice made me an expert and when It was the moment of truth, I always said something else that i hadn't practiced but it worked well. If you are confident all is going to be ok.
Good luck.
2006-06-14 00:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tudor_ 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you are a really nice guy. Girls these days are more attracted to bad boys. Change your ways man and quit trying so hard!!
2006-06-14 00:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by rjrmechanic76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls probably do like you.....girls are just a little insecure like you are. Instead of trying to get dates, try just being friends. For some reason girls usually become attracted that way.
2006-06-14 00:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Big Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's your personality? i mean, try to find out if the girl you like likes you back (in a subtle way). you seem like a really hot guy. i would date you. email me back and we can talk
2006-06-14 00:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by acnpswim@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls get nervous too!! Keep trying you're only 14... you'll get a date you sound hot!!
2006-06-14 00:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ija 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too hot, and people are afraid to ask you out for fear of you turning them down. If you are their friend they might be afraid to ruin the friendship
2006-06-14 00:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Erik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time to date. Your education should be a priority right now.
2006-06-14 00:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that young and no GF...its because you a nice guy...wait a few years and they will be tired of getting beaten by the bad boys and flock to you.
2006-06-14 00:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋