2006-06-13 17:00:52 · 25 answers · asked by b_diaz13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 25 yrs. old. My husband died 5 yrs. ago. My daughter (7 yrs. old) and my son (4). I'm working here in Hong Kong as a Domistic Helper. I meet that married man here also in HK. His Honest & very humble thats why I like him. I have a lot of suitors, But my heart says I like that man.
2006-06-13 17:26:42 · update #1
well,
if he wants to marry u.....he will have to divorce his wife.
talk to him.
2006-06-13 17:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the pain of a broken heart is everything you deserve, because you should know better than to be involved with someone else's husband. That is a very selfish act and there is nothing good to come out of that but a broken heart. You may not see it or realize it now, but eventually you will.
This is very sad, because there are far to many single men in this world for you to have stooped this low. This also says a lot about you character for even wanting to affilate yourself with someone that would cheat on there wife, he's a loser and that makes you a loser as well.
Do you honestly think that this man would leave his family for you and your two kids, as well as your depression from being a widow. You are just a piece of couchy thats it an all to it.
Go see a shriek and get a life, and not someone else's.
2006-06-13 17:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by purrlywhites 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 look 4 other men! I mean this may B hard 4 ya but jus' think of all the drama U havta go through 2 get this guy. U might think that it's worth all the drama 4 this 1 guy but 2 tell U the truth U deserve better! He commeted his life N marrage w/ another woman! There's a reason Y he did! He didn't jus' do that cuz he had a gun 2 his head N the mob would all go after him F he didn't marry thier cuzz'n or thier lil' sis. U deserve better.
2006-06-13 17:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
You are just lonely, you didn't say how long you had been a widow at any rate if he's married he's certainly not looking for a wife and if you want a true relationship I suggest you tell him to go home to his wife. He probably tells you how bad she is etc all cheaters are the same and remember if he cheated on her he would certainly cheat on you and not only on you if the wife can't trust him then who can not even his friends. I wish you happiness but God would never bless a union that has caused a home/family to be broken up think and pray about it. Would you want a spouse that cheated on you. I wish you love with someone else.
2006-06-13 17:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hong Kong is an interesting phenomenon. Their struggle is in grappling with the universal demand for regressive insight into the technological mastery. if your husband is not a person who finds this ideology to be better than being in love with you, then perhaps thats a template, a sort of conversation starter, that will empower you both to agree what love is and is not.
2006-06-14 02:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by gekim784l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer you want to hear is probally not the one i'm giving you..you need to break off the relationship many people can be hurt by this including your two kids. since I'm going by what you have stated i suspect you are ready tobe involved again in a relationship a married man is not a good route to take. you have lost someone in the past and gone thru the pain of that loss you don't need to lose someone again and go thru the pain and sorrow you will feel plus you have two precious children to think of .
2006-06-13 17:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a married man? and you have 2 kids? Are you nuts? You have trouble now and you want to compound it. Do you want to be the corespondant in a divorce? If so, you must find divorce and cheating acceptable. If he cheats on his wife I'll guarantee you he'll cheat on you. Get rid of him now. Find a SINGLE man and only a single man. You are nuts to think this will work out.
2006-06-13 17:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to stop seeing that man. How would you feel if your husbent did that to you?
You would not be very happy. Let it go and find your own man. There are planlty of way to meet single men with kids. Trust me I had to find someone too.
2006-06-13 17:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you date a married man?? especially having 2 children.
does the man have children??
people need to stop thinking of themselves, and start thinking about the children involved in all these situations.. they are the ones that are getting hurt the most.
2006-06-13 17:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're an idiot for getting involved with a married man in the first place. do the right thing and tell him to take a hike
2006-06-13 17:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was to date a married man, what if you were in her position...the one being cheated on? You can't possibly think this man takes you serious, he's married!!!!
Concentrate on your child, love and take care of them!!!!
2006-06-13 17:06:11 · answer #11 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋