2006-06-13 16:58:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
when you are ready to become an adult - if you are not ready for the repercussions of sex i.e. children or STD - then you are not ready for sex - no birth control is 100% effective - so your best bet is to wait till you are married and in a committed relationship
2006-06-13 17:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by kaije03 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Having sex is a big step to make and it should be given a lot of thought. Yes you should be married when you have sex, there is no doubt about that. But I'm not going to judge, I am just going to answer the question. Just the fact that you are asking this question means that you are not ready. You will know because your heart, mind and body will tell you so. You should really love the person that you choose to give yourself to and there should be no doubt that they love you as well. Once you take this step there is no going back and you have to be prepared and most of all protect yourself. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you are not ready to do because there should never be any pressure to do something from someone who truly loves you.
2006-06-14 00:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Food4Thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre ready when sex gone wrong wont screw up anything major. Look at your life if something went wrong would you be able to cope effectively and independently. If you answered no then you are not ready.
You cant really go by feelings either. how many people are still with their first mate.? THis thing we call "love" is likely to change over time.
there's time and if you really feel the urge there is always fantasies and masturbation. if your friends or special friend is pushing its your life and its your decision. Do whatever you must to keep yourself safe and sane.
2006-06-14 00:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by nicolette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to raise a child to adulthood.
When you have considered the diseases out there that are sexually transmitted. You know like herpes, (no cure) chlamydia (can make you unable to HAVE babies) Aids, (you die from it), syphilis, human papilloma virus (leads to cancer) .
So now, when you are ready to accept that this might very well happen to you, You should then stop and reconsider.. You need to be in a life time relationship BEFORE you have sex.. Death is the end of a lifetime..
Sex will be there, when you are ready.. It is wonderful and well worth the wait...
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-14 00:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never think you know your ready and if you have to ask, your probably NOT ready. The way it sounds, your young and asking.I would hope that you have an open relationship with your parents.If so, talk to them first.I know this sounds weird, but parents really do know best and if you both decided what was best, maybe they could get you protection.But WAIT!!!Life is tooo short.Don't be in such a hurry.You have your whole life ahead of you.I hope you talk to your parents or a guidance counselor, at school.
2006-06-14 00:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should tell you when you get married because that's how long i want my baby girl to wait, but the truth is she might not, and you might not either, so let me give you some back up advice~ if he or she you're dating is pressuring you and telling you that you don't love them because you won't- well the truth is- they don't love you- they just want in your pants. and if they do love you- really truly love you- they can wait! and will- if they love you! and you know what- when you're ready- you'll know. And the last thing that tells you that you're ready- you're not embarrassed to buy condoms or a spermicide. Hope this was helpful.
2006-06-14 00:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Valsey J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married...I had many partners before I got a clue...but when I met the man I was to marry, we chose not to have sex before we were married. We are both soooo glad we made that decision and both regret not 'waiting' for each other. There is way too much baggage that goes along with giving yourself to anyone other than your husband. Do it the way God intended!
2006-06-14 00:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kelliekay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur ready and over 16 r 17
2006-06-14 15:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me here when i say wait until marriage coz when u have sex for the firt time u get a soul tie this bonds u lovers
2006-06-14 00:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Best Ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto
2006-06-14 00:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by ...Just Me :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋