i meat him for like 2 weeks the first week he was a sweety but now all he do to me is hurt me tell me that im cheating lieing ect.
are we going to be okey together?
why is it that i feel that i love him?
do i love him? yeah i think
is it because im young and do know what love is?
is it we moving to fast?
is it got need to get to know he more?
i dont know help me and tell me is it love if not what is to? why do i feel this way?
2006-06-13 16:30:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is a hard thing, but two weeks into a relationship he should not be hurting you. If someone is hurting you more than giving you happiness it's time to move on. Life is too short to be bogged down with unhappiness especially when you have a choice about it. Get out of that relationship and spend some time figuring out what would make you happyt before you get into another one.
2006-06-13 16:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling the normal issues of a young person on the doorstep of a adult relationship. Sweetie you are being tempted into a something that I don't think you are prepared for. From your post, I see the guy as being very manipulating and possessive, which is not a good thing, and most definitely not love. Love is giving and receiving without pressure, freely given. Love is not demanding and controlling.
Step back and review your perspectives girl, remember that the seeds you plant today you harvest tomorrow.
2006-06-14 00:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, stayed for three years too long. The longer you stay the harder it is to leave. I am the only fool that didn't see what he was doing to me. I thought I love him and agreed to marry him so I felt I had to stay. YOU DON'T. Leave now. If you are asking strangers this question it's because you feel something is wrong. Unlike me you see and feel it. Your a smart woman and deserve to be loved not hurt. RUN sweetie and find a real man. Good Luck
2006-06-13 23:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jody O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love, it's infatuation. most young people think they know what love is, but trust me, give yourself a few years. you feel this way about him because he's probably the first relationship you have ever been in. trust me, if he is already accusing you of cheating and lying, run from this guy far and fast. you have your whole life to be in bad relationships. let him go.
2006-06-13 23:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him and he doesn't love you - point blank. You don't learn to run before you learn to walk. Basically, how can you look for love if you haven't found friendship? Just ask yourself if the way he's treating you is how you would expect a real friend to treat you and the answers to your questions will be a lot easier to answer.
2006-06-13 23:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by bashyt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO!!!! you dont love him.........i went through something like that once....he is being an *** and all you need to do is get over him. get all ur friends together and have a girls night out after u break up with him. flirt with some guys and see if there is another guy for you.
2006-06-13 23:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were moving to fast. You know I fell in love once and he was the same way. i met my husband and forced myself to get this other person because girl i lost like 50 pds cause of him i started smoking and drinking cause of him. but it is like not worth it at all. there are better guys out there.
2006-06-13 23:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by maria l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have more of a fear of being without him then love. Love is a lot more than just a feeling. It's knowing and understanding your partner. At two weeks it hard to achive that.
2006-06-13 23:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cosmic Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be in love with a guy that lie to you and also cheats on you, you have to be careful because you will end up hurting yourself the more. i don't think that is love i think it is lust
2006-06-13 23:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by joy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you love him, you are better off without him. Someone that treats you like that is not worth the time or the heartache.
2006-06-13 23:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by linda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋