2006-06-13 16:15:46 · 16 answers · asked by Dance06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you should decide why you still love him after he treated you badly. Is he cute and other girls envy you because you're with him? Not a good reason to stick with a guy who makes you feel bad. You deserve a boy who treats you well. Go find one and dump the turkey who hurts you.
2006-06-13 16:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by CarolO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has ups and downs, and it's at those down times that you really have to work at your relationship. If you're still in love with this person, you should talk to them . Tell him how you feel about him, how you felt that he treated you bad and see what he says. If he's still in love with you, then work through the problem.
If you're not willing to talk to him or he's not willing to work it out then it's time to move on. But do keep in mind that some people never change, and it's after awhile of being together that their true colors start to show.
2006-06-13 23:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself, "he treated you bad"....get over him and move on with your life. Why do you think you have to "do" anything: Have you considered counseling? Just having a neutral party to talk things over with is a great help....if for no other reason that giving you a different perspecitve on an old issue/problem. It appears to me that you have a low self esteem if you believe there is anything to be done after the breakup, other than focusing on finding ways to make yourself happy (you will note that I didn't say findong someone to make you happy.) If you can't make yourself happy, it's doubtful that someone else can do it for you.
2006-06-13 23:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by bug927 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know these questions are like pure comedy. What do you mean what should you do? Duh!! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that if HE TREATED YOU BAD IN THE END, HE'LL TREAT YOU BAD AGAIN... And by staying with him, you're allowing it to happen. Perhaps you like him a little more than he likes you. I don't know how old you are, but I'm going to bet that it's safe to say you have plenty of time, plenty of loves still ahead..... just focus on moving on.
2006-06-13 23:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself. You do not have to have a BF to be a worthy woman. Find a BF that deserves the worthy you. Start looking NOW. In the end you will be so glad you did not "settle" and waste years of your life's time. If he is mean or hateful or runs around now before you are his wife he WILL do it when you are his wife.
2006-06-13 23:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by BJ M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use him for a booty call when you are between boy friends. Keep looking for someone who will treat you right, but when you are in a dry spot, call him for some action.
2006-06-13 23:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u fall in love wit a guy who treat u bad
2006-06-13 23:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by babyg_tinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to move on to something different someday.
Don't let feelings of familiarity weigh too heavily... new people can be refreshing and better than anything you've ever had.
2006-06-13 23:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Eugene G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me a week ago. let him go. why would you want someone that treats you bad anyway.
2006-06-13 23:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try talking to him and see if you can remedy the situation. If it doesn't help, I would say it's not worth it.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 23:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋