Cuz I have this co-worker who shows no emotion at all and he don't talk to no one. But once in a while he'll do favors for me and no one else. And Im a gay guy who acts straight.
2006-06-13 16:15:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Cuz I have this co-worker who shows no emotion at all and he don't talk to no one. But once in a while he'll do favors for me and no one else. And Im a gay guy who acts straight. But I don't want to ask him cuz what if he isnt gay ,plus nobody at my work knows Im gay.
2006-06-13 16:19:38 · update #1
The thing is that I only act straight so people will take me seriously at work and there's no possible way of me and him hanging out because he's black and we are two totally different people.(Im Mexican)
2006-06-13 16:26:13 · update #2
seriously dude, ask him if he's gay on a lunch break or something, its not appropriate to do it while working.
2006-06-24 04:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Southie9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Difficult to tell. However, if he makes eye contact with you or you find that you are each making furtive glances at each other, then he is probably gay.
That being said, let me give you the best advice you can get. "Don't crap where you eat!" Sorry that sounds vulgar, but what I mean is that you should not engage in a relationship with someone that you work with. Despite the fact that many people will see this and disagree, I can assure you that the number of uncomfortable situations, job losses, etc., is much greater than relationships working out.
If you persist in doing this and you feel he may be gay and you're attracted to him, try asking him if he wants to catch a ballgame or some other neutral activity. Believe me, once you are in that situation one of you (or both) will bound to start asking each other nice, polite questions that have an ulterior motive, i.e., are you seeing anyone, etc.
Good luck.
2006-06-27 15:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Edward K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a very tough question because I am a straight male. If they make a move on you then you definitely will know if they are gay and if you are straight you better leave immediately or confront the person and tell them you are not interested in them.
Just because he does favors for you does not necessarily mean the guy is gay. Sounds to me like your looking for gay friends? good luck but be safe
2006-06-24 08:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by MARK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some gays are more feminine than others. I live in a gay community and I've seen the most macho to the most prissy. It could be that he doesn't want people to know. Not quite ready to come out of the closet. I have some gay friends who have actually been disowned by their families when they found out, so this might be a scary decision for him.
2006-06-13 23:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by aretus60 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to know if he is gay since you do not want to date him or even hang out. What difference does it make? It seems you do not want to be treated differently in the work place so you do not advertise your sexuality.
Go on with your life and enjoy it, knowing peoples sexuality does not make a person.
2006-06-19 19:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by sanfranguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what your pretty much saying is that you wish that he was gay. Dude, just ask him, but don't make it harsh, just ask one day, it won't hurt, just like i said, try not to sound mean about it! And, stop trying to act straight if deep inside your gay, you shouldn't be ashamed of it, hey, the guy who plays Magnito in the x-men movies is gay and he lets people know it!!!
2006-06-13 23:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just quiet or shy. Maybe he is gay and picking up signals from you. Maybe you aren't acting as straight as you think you are. At lunch sit down with him and chat. No pressure. Just enjoy the company.
2006-06-26 18:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop hoping that he is gay and just keep on acting normal. maybe becuz he thinks that you are a nice guy, that;'s why he helped you. or maybe he is gay and he is attracted to you, but he is not a person who want to come clean. dont push your luck. just go with the flow
2006-06-13 23:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by B-D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hoping that he is gay and just keep on acting normal. maybe becuz he thinks that you are a nice guy, that;'s why he helped you. or maybe he is gay and he is attracted to you, but he is not a person who want to come clean. dont push your luck. just go with the flow
2006-06-27 02:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by inthidreams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you hang out with him because he's black and you're Mexican? He's probably just a loner like me and doesn't trust alot of people and maybe just wants to be your friend. Maybe he just trusts you. I could be wrong.
2006-06-27 19:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I was you I would start talking about this really hot girl you met. Watch the expressions on his face to see if he shows any intrest. if not then he probobly is gay but so what who cares. there's nothing wrong with that
2006-06-27 23:22:18 · answer #11 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋