2006-06-13 16:07:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple communication. In an unoffensive tone, let your hubby know that you feel neglected and that he seems overworked. Stress that you aren't mad, you just want to help him rebalance his priorities so that he is able to enjoy the life he has with you. Be sure to keep things casual and be open and honest witheachother. Don't turn it into a fight or try to accuse him of anything. He loves you, he wants to provide for you as a couple, and he needs to succeed at his job in order to feel good about himself. Sometimes in our zeal for success, we over extend ourselves and may need help reeling back in. Find out why exactly he feels his job requires so much of his time, and how much is really neccesary to do his job well. Once the two of you have established that, then you should plan a romantic getaway, even if you only get as far as the local inn.
2006-06-16 15:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck, you are going to need it. Just be happy that your husband is not a dead beat that doesn't have a job. Find a time consuming hobby. That what I did.
2006-06-13 23:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I did in the past was to wait for him at his working place, ready to have dinner with him. Sometimes I waited outside the apartment wearing something sexy and started to caress and kiss him the moment he reached home. He will be tired yes, but he will feel that he has to be fair to you since you made an effort to make it work. Unfortunately, we have to start first to make them feel good before they could make us feel better. The key word is feel sexy and be sexy - something a man should not resist especially if she is his wife.
2006-06-13 23:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by RockTheBabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is likely that he has moved on to the second phase of the relationship cycle, individuallity. the first was symbiosis, where the two of you spent every available moment with eachother. individuallity phase is where the two of you develope seperate pastimes and hobbies. the third phase is reproachment, wherein the two of you will begin to develop common interests and hobbies. have patience, all things in their time.
2006-06-13 23:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by missingyoursunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him how you feel whenever you do have time to share do things that interest him but keep his mind off of work Let him be aware of how consumed he is in his work and the negletion he has given to u
2006-06-13 23:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by jus_wondirn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to take a vacation day and plan something special... and make it romantic!!! That way, he'll want to keep coming home!
2006-06-13 23:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably doing another woman at work and he don't really give a dang about his job
2006-06-13 23:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone about stuff, so that he has some time to miss you then he will want to be around.
2006-06-13 23:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Gweedo8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his job?
2006-06-13 23:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by theGUNNman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him fired
2006-06-13 23:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋