me and my bf been togather for more than 2 years and recently he tell me that almost of the girs in his campus always text him but he doesn't,yes...now even though he tell me that he never cares for all of those girls who wants tomeet him still I was nitsecure since I kow that my Bfoves tominggles with and a very humorous person and love tomake others laugh...What if one day he might fall into the wrong joke...In what way can I make those girls stop chasing after him, do I have to text them also and fight with them?????
2006-06-13 16:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by LOVErenan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh.. wow.. first talking in any relationship is key.... I guess you guys didnt talk about ground rules: what will and Wont be cool in the relationship.
Friends are friends thats cool if he has little femmes text messaging him, but the queston is, would he be cool if guys were textin you? Its gotta be equal or its not going to work. You both need to talk about this cause if you cant shrug it off you know its only gonna get worst: your going to read one or many of his messages and find some female is just a little too cutsey with him.
Boundaries you guys needed to create some before all of this: now you Have to talk with him: cause this isnt cool...
dont text a chick back...
dont accuse him of anything
be specfic in what you dont feel right about and make him picture if you were in the same situation: would it be ok if guys texting you?
2006-06-13 16:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that insecure you should talk more with your bf and make it clear that you care for him only and that your uncomfortable with all the texting to other girls. If anyone needs to end the texting problem it should be your bf. Good luck girl
2006-06-13 23:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your question makes very little sense because everything is so mis-spelled and second, there is no way to keep other girls from talking to your boyfriend. If he is trustworthy enough to tell you what is going on then he probably wouldn't cheat on you either, but he is going to do whatever he is going to do regardless of your trying to stop other girls. Stop worrying about it and enjoy your relationship.
2006-06-13 23:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down, be yourself, you know what, your bf just love the way you are. Just be yourself, maybe that you don't text him is the reason why he loves you. No guy want a girl like a baby, always want guy to pay attentions!
2006-06-13 23:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through this before except we were engaged and mine was texting and seeing them. Ask him politely and calmly what the real story is and if he cannot explain rationally, starts raising his voice in defense take a breather for a while then he can decide whom's more important you or his "friends".
2006-06-13 23:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no gurl never fight over a man dat iz stupid never do it ok here iz wat u do if he falls into da wrong joke and u find out leave him but there is one other thing u can do try 2 talk 2 him let him no how u feel and ask him wat he thinks if he trys 2 change da subject u no he is cheating or if he says baby u no i love u and only u dats their favorite one or says sum'n like it u should no sum'n iz up but the next step iz up 2 u do u wanna share or do u wanna leave iz up 2 u u never can be sure so good luck and find out wat u can find gurl iz up 2 u now
2006-06-13 23:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight over any dude. To many around to waste your time on a minngler.
2006-06-13 23:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by tiltintam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't text them or fight with them! If you trust your bf and what he says just let it be and it will be just fine.
2006-06-13 23:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by jonday_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tominggles?
did you write tominggles?
I think Homer Simpson is available
2006-06-13 23:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋