My girlfriend and i were together for 6yrs. we were each other first loves. i fell inlove with her when we were teenagers. she is very beautiful. she sacraficed so much for me, her parents called her nasty names, all her friends abondened her, and everyone tried to take her away from me. she left me after 6yrs, for a guy she was working with. 2weeks after i moved out, he moved in with her. i was very insecure, and i accused her of cheating on me, called her nasty names, and hardly ever showed her attention unless it was for sex. she bought me a new truck a couple of months before we broke up. i chatted with this girl over the internet for almost 1 1/2yrs. she caught me 2 times, and finally left me for this guy. he is more controlling than me, he dont want her family over and followed her to work in his truck. i lied and told her i was dating the girl i was talking to over the internet. she wont talk to me, or listen to. i really miss her, and i want to know if she still loves me?
2006-06-13 15:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by beerdrinker3423 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like you've said you both have been through a lot together, first loves are beautiful, but most end for reasons that are common: boredom, cheating. Theres a lot of confusion going with her "catching" you chating with this girl online: could it be that you were sabotaging your relationship in the first place?
You say thats shes a great girl so why would you chat it up with a female online for 1 1\2 years? What was going on between you two when you started to talked to this women online?
There many question that comes up to what you've posted but what you provided is the following:
two weeks after you two split up she "already" moving in with a guy she works with: now its seems like 2 weeks after a breakup is a short time to Move in with a man: Unless they had a previous relationship: him being her shoulder to lean on and (she would be really going out of her way to make a statement if) shes doing this to make you jealous.
you have done some compromising actions that cause the breakup: but why were you such a jerk to her?
i feel one part of you wanted out of the relationship, or at least freedom to have other relationships. You said its been 6yrs you guys have been together, that a long time. Why treat her so badly and accuse her of cheating?
A person in new relationship is over their pass love when: they dont want to listen to your pleads anymore, they stop picking up the phone when you call. When they stop listening to you completely thats when you know their over you.
If you feel you need to: send her a letter explaining your feelings and promise you wont call or speak to her unless she comes up to you. Thats it leave it at that.
I do feel that she may call you or want to speak to you: 6 years is a long time for anyone to not want to talk to someone they sacrafice so much for, right?
I hope you get the answers your looking for.
2006-06-13 15:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The grass isn't greener, is it? You were chatting to a girl for a year and a half of your relationship? You put yourself in this position. She is over you, move on and learn from your mistakes, don't act the same in your next relationship.
2006-06-13 22:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity in a relationtionship is poison. My friend people can only take so much. Ask yourself if someone is constantly accusing you of something that haven'nt done well in short it get tiresome. I would say she is done. Let it go playa
2006-06-13 22:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Yendor478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you played yourself, she is moved on, not talking to you is a big sign
2006-06-13 22:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She don't love you any mor; move on dude
2006-06-13 22:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by stillhappy89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt it...get along with your life....forget her
2006-06-13 22:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by chickenwoman_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋