How can I tell if he is really the one for me?
2006-06-13 15:26:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have to ask....then you may want to re think it.
2006-06-13 15:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main purpose of marriage and family is love. To love and to be loved is why people get married and stay together for the rest of their lives.
To judge whether your boyfriend is the one you want to marry, you need to look at the quality, the quantity, and the permanence of your love relationship with him.
If he loves you well, loves you a lot, and never looks at other women and you love him the same way, then he is probably the right one for you.
Of course, you have to remember that true love is not just in words and in feelings. True love is love in deeds that make a difference. Look at the way he treats you, and decide if you want to be treated like that for the rest of your life.
2006-06-13 22:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time to figure out the answer to that. You must know the person very well! You need to sit down and talk about life questions before you take the big step. You need to make sure that you know in your heart that he is the one for you. Please take as long as you need to figure this out. Don't jump to quickly and then look back and regret the decision you made.
2006-06-13 22:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Chipper33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously think it"s all about YOU?
What if YOU are not the one HE should spend HIS life with?
You don't seem to be that dedicated or have a firm grasp on what LOVE is yet....or you wouldn't be asking THIS?
Perhaps it is HE, who, after being told your question, should be having DOUBTS?
2006-06-13 22:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a lot in common, but not enough so that you have your own lives. When you still get butterflies at the sight of him after so long. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...the trust factor is no longer in any conversations.
2006-06-13 22:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by abcyr0416 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to follow your heart. if he treats u like you think u should be treated and he really cares about u than everything should be going greta but than again he could just be putting on a show for u. but if u really love him and he feels the same about u then just trust your heart. good luck!!
2006-06-13 22:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really tell if someone is right for you. you can only tell how you feel about them and if youre happy with them. does he make you happy? can you see yourself being with him, getting married, having kids? realisticly i mean. not fantasy. when he's gone, is he always popping into your head. do you think about him even when he's there? do you miss him even if he is there or just left. that's how i felt about my bf. but slowly, i feel myself gradually not feelign that way anymore. i lvoe him and i want to be with him forever, but there are some changes we need to make to bring the spark back.
2006-06-13 22:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not sonething you know it is a feeling and it is completely unexplainable
2006-06-13 22:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in the question:
Can you see yourself without him?
if you can't even imagine life without him there, then he is the one.
2006-06-13 22:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well r u in love with him?is he responsible?does he love u?do u want to be with him?ask your parents and talk to them they've been there and it does help trust me
2006-06-13 22:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Whiterz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋