Help with a young drinker?

Question

I have a good friend who is only 14 yeard old. She has already started drinking and got so drunk one night that she had sex (for the first time) and didn't even remember! She still drinks! How can i convince her to stop drinking?

Answer 1

How about telling a "older friend" like a calm parent or teacher. Sound like the usual thing an adult would say but she does need help. She IS an alcoholic! Sleeping with a guy and not remembering it is called a black out. That is an alcoholic thing! Talk to her, be prepared for all the excuses. You will eventually lose her as a friend. lying is not far behind what she is doing. She won't remember what she has done so she will laugh it off or say "I did not do that" Someone older has got to help you for your friends sake! DO NOT let her suck you into her world of drinking. Sometimes drugs are not far behind. Be strong and tell someone, she needs HELP!

Answer 2

Have a very good talk with her, she sounds like she is heading for trouble.
Who is buying her the drinks as she is too young to buy her own. This is very serious she could die, try and make sure she understands this. Good luck

Answer 3

show her examples of all the people who have gone to waste by drinking so early and tell her that she too might become like them, if shes a practical person and cares abt herself she should understand and stop drinking....

Answer 4

She has probably already developed alcoholism. If she is a really good friend of yours. Talk to her, then if that doesn't seem to work. Tell her you don't want to hang out with her anymore, afterall she is disrespecting herself. Good Luck

Answer 5

give her a joint and tell her to never look back at that nasty drink :)