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my son father deal with crack heads had a few over doses in his house these problems come up in court in the system keep the child there my thought is the reason why they didnt take the the child from him is because im black in he white they say i can get supervise visit but they cant tell him what to do in his house when he choose to leave my child in the house with these women who

2006-06-13 15:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by fighting for child 1 in Politics & Government Law & Ethics

16 answers

First, get off the racial kick. It will only make you look worse in court and to everyone else.

If you are trying to get custody away from someone who already has the child, then there is the problem. Courts are not normally willing to take the child away from one parent and just give to the other without significant legal evidence (not just you and word of mouth). Do you have any solid evidence of the drug use and dealing? If not, you are out of luck. To the courts, every Tom, Dick and Harry and female counterparts yell "he's on drugs" when they want to be the custodial parent. They hear it a thousand times a day with no evidence to show for it. Now, if he gets arrested for it and you can get CPS involved, you may have a chance, but you will be investigated too, to make sure that you are living clean yourself. For your sake, I hope you are.

2006-06-13 15:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0 0

Okay. I do not know where Bucks County PA is, nor do I know the legal remedies to assist in the winning a custody case of this nature. I would suggest findlaw.com for a councilor in your area.
I am sure, by reading what you wrote, that it most likely is not a black and white issue. Not trying to be rude, just a thought.

The crack issue is prevalent to be sure. Not withstanding the home environment lacks a little something. Don't you think?

2006-06-13 22:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by jinx4swag 3 · 0 0

What you do is you prove that you can provide a more stable environment for your child than the drug addict. Bring up criminal history, past abuses, examples of neglect, etc. I don't care how racist people are, those with kids will sympathize because they'd hate to see their own child in the same situation.

2006-06-13 22:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by blairs_smirking_revenge 3 · 0 0

I hope everything works out for you but to be taken most seriously in this serious situation...try to speak in proper grammer because then everyone will be able to understand where you are coming from becuase i am having trouble understanding what you are saying. God bless, MayMay

2006-06-13 22:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by MayMay 2 · 0 0

Hey sweety, you need to get a lawyer. i understand that the daddy does drugs and you want your baby out of there. Why did they say you could only get supervised visits? i am white and i used to be a paralegal. now i have my own business. find legal help even if you go to get free legal aid. good luck.....email me if you need to.

2006-06-13 22:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by wayladuley 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry that you have to go through that but just keep going to court and they will see how much your child means to you and that all that matters is your child. God Bless!!!!

2006-06-13 22:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shena 2 · 0 0

So sorry for all that your going through...although I don't have a legal response for you on this all I can say is..."""""You go to court as many times as it takes..."""""

GOOD LUCK!

I also think that all the responses you have received so far are cruel and childish...Hang in there.

2006-06-13 22:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by xoxo 1 · 0 0

You sound like a typical whining *****, to me. Everything is all about you being black. What possesed to get mixed up with white trash, to begin with?

2006-06-13 22:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

237 times.
Thank God you're not Hispanic. They have to go to court 453 times!!

P.S. White people don't have to go to court at all. We just get whatever we ask for.

2006-06-13 22:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0 0

I cannot even understand what the heck you are saying because your typing sucks

2006-06-13 22:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0 0

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