2006-06-13 14:59:42 · 20 answers · asked by rdotmoon 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
In some places i have heard of emergancy abortions at 20 weeks, which is 5 months, they do it in cases of the fetus actually causing danger to the mother, and in cases or birth defects and down syndrome.
In this case it is likey that the baby will suffer from a birth defect and/or down syndrome. So its in her best intrest that she gets rid of it!
She should also report the rape to the police, it is a crime to sexually molest a minor and even more horrific crime to molest a family member!
tell her she must do something, dont just sit by and let time tick away, go to the police, or an aid worker they will help you!!
2006-06-13 15:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_surf_chick06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably too late to end the pregnancy but she can give the baby up for adoption and have a closed adoption so there is less of a chance that the child will look for her, if that is what she wants.
Try to find a planned parenthood that you can take her to. They won't try to talk her into anything, they will just help her figure out what choice is best for her, and they are not that expensive.
2006-06-13 15:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really hard. It depends on her age and how she is to take things. SHe could put the baby up for adoption but close the case, so the baby can't find her when she get grown and the she have to tell her why and what happen. I pray for her and God will bless her. Put the uncle in JAIL
2006-06-13 15:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by ladyhawks85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at 3 or 4 months along, it might be cutting it close for an abortion. She can definitely consider putting the child up for adoption and try to move on with her life. I would suggest counseling later on as well.
2006-06-13 15:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she turned her uncle in and he gets a very long prison sentence!!! As for the baby , go ahead and have it and give it up for adoption. I don't thing abortion is an option unless there is something seriously wrong with the baby and it would never live a productive life. (As in it had no brain or heart)
2006-06-13 15:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I would go to the doc and have them run some blood test, that way they can rule out possibilitys of the baby having anything wrong due to the insest. If the doctor says that the baby is healthy, She shouldnt abort it, she should either keep it or give it up for adoption.
2006-06-13 15:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion... If I were in this situation I would choose to have an elective abortion. It is not too late. The longer you wait the worse it will be. Or carry the child and put it up for adoption.
2006-06-13 15:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by murphie_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend if there are no impending difficulties to help her carry that baby full term and put it up for adoption!
I hope she moves far from this uncle and seeks counselling! This will haunt her for the rest of her life, if she doesn't seek help!
Good Luck!
2006-06-13 15:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is to late in pregancy to abort the baby she can give it up at the hospital just walk away there is a new law that allows you to leave it at the hospital as long as the baby is under the age of two moths or she can go to a plan parenthood and they will help her with opitons on what to do
2006-06-13 15:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by bettyblueeyes_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't reccomend abortion because of the health risks and everything. Adoption is probably best. She can talk to the local Planned Parenthood for more help and suggestions
2006-06-13 15:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋