ok well so far my parents know somewhat about me having sex but they dont know the whole story and they wont let me outside when they aint home cause they think imma have sex now also they think dat erry guy who calls me dat im havibng sex with dem and i wanna go ova my friends where we had sex and they feel errytime i go over there imma have sex..which was my plan but i mean how do i get them to trust me so that my parents will let mefree again?
2006-06-13 14:51:55 · 30 answers · asked by cutie_pie1210 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Stop trying to deceive your parents! You'll regret it later. They have been there and done that already so they know what you're up to, trust me. They know that they can't trust you anymore (as of now), so it will definitely take a long time of you not f---ing up for that trust to be rebuilt.
2006-06-13 15:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by so what 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you 14? If I was your parent, I would have done the same. Maybe if you actually change they will let you have more freedom. What parents do is to protect you. They don't want you to catch an STD or get pregnant at a young age. Condoms break. There is always a chance it can happen to you. And STDs are fun. Maybe if you do want children, you should wait. Kids are a pain in the butt. Trust me. I don't have any of my own, but I babysit. ALOT.
My parents completely trust me. When I go out, I tell them where I'm going, who will be there, how long I plan to stay.
If they think you are doing every guy who calls. Then talk to them about that person. Prove to them through responsibilities and not argueing with them. Actually listening to what they have to say. It will get their trust back. But know, that trust is hard to build especially if it has been broken.
2006-06-13 15:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by x3alysserr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are trying to get out of the house to have sex so you can get pregnant at 14 I don't think you're parents should let you out of the house. Instead of wondering how to get out of the house, think about why you want to have sex with so many people and try to figure out a way to make your life better without all the sex, trust me there is more to life than sex, and if you were my child you would never leave the house again.
2006-06-13 15:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to stay in the house for a lil bit without wanting to go out side. When they see that you not trying to go out then maybe they'll get the hint that your not having sex because your not all hyped to leave the house.
2006-06-13 15:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is talk with some respect, that would go a long way in getting anyone to trust you
2006-06-13 14:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by mandp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up, sweetie. It's going to take a lot of time to build up that trust again. Don't focus on having sex, focus on your future, not the feeling of the moment!
2006-06-13 14:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! You may be a Cutie Pie but you are "Just Not There"!
I hope your Parents lock you up in a room and feed you 3 times a day!
2006-06-13 14:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta respect urself enough to stop havin sex at such a young age and maybe ur parents would start to trust u sum more, u keep havin sex and ur gunna get pregnant and turn out like me.
2006-06-13 15:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something that is earned not just given. Once you break that trust its hard to get it back. and you aren't ready for that yet. When you get older and have kids of your own you will understand everything they are trying to do for you. Maybe then you will appreciate your parrents.
2006-06-13 14:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obey their rules, and stay home. That's how you earn their trust again. You're not ready to be trusted - that's obvious by the way you broke their rules before and the fact that you're planning to try and do it again.
2006-06-13 14:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋