this is long, sorry! im bi; right now i have an interest in this boy. actually 2 boys, but it could never work out with the one i dont think b/c he's my best friend's brother. but besides that, there's this other guy who i cant "read." all the time in public hes got his hands all over me, and he doesnt object when i do the same. but i cant tell if it's play or not. some of it im sure is, but like i dont know. for example, in the car tonight he reached from the back seat and pinched my asss (which was play) so i reached back to brush him away, and then he was like "is that your hand?" (which it was) and i said yea, and he was like okay, and he held it. for a while. but then he kinda pulled away. so i cant really tell. i'm sorry, i mean im almost graduated HS and i (still) cant figure out boys. also, i dont know if i'm just seeing this wrong. i dont think so; people always yell "fag" and s**t when we're downtown, but he just shrugs. i don't want to ruin anything by asking. help? thanks!
2006-06-13 14:36:19 · 8 answers · asked by answers, answers 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you are on a great start, already. Man, what I would give for that with a guy. Just be you. Enjoy the friendship. DO not push it. Let it happen, if it does. When you hold hands, squeeze his. Does he kiss you? Have you kissed? Give him a hug and give him a little kiss on the neck. Then, walk away. Bait the hook and see what happens.
If he likes it, he will come after you. Promise.
2006-06-13 15:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are going to need to ask him sometime soon. Being on the same page greatly will help your relationship, that way you can even let him know if you want to go further and explore your sexuality some more!
2006-06-13 22:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you develop some form of ESP you should either ask him or just let it go. When you ask him just be casual and normal and say you thought he was just playing but weren't sure. If it's just play and he's not into you feel free to email me, your avartars hot dude.
2006-06-13 23:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by sooziebeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out for a hamburger
share the burger
share the fries
share the straw
look at each other and smile
laugh
then share some dessert.
2006-06-13 22:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm I'd just wait and see. Eventually if you still don't know what he wants just ask him. The only thing I would worry about is getting too attached and then having your heart torn in 2.......
2006-06-13 23:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's initiating everything, it sounds like; maybe he's not sure about you.
2006-06-13 22:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club. we'll have shirts very soon.
but seriously, i say at least try. but come on to him slowly. don't rush. haste makes waste. if you don't, you'll just keep wondering "what if...?" and that's worse.
2006-06-13 21:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by gaygoddevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, and spend more time with him. Time will tell.
2006-06-13 21:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋