We have been married 12 yrs, my husband wants to be together all the time. even after all these yrs, i love him to death and ive told him he is crowding my space, a couple of knock down drag out arguments over this, what can i do? what can i say?
2006-06-13 14:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A husband and wife being codependent on eachother isn't a bad thing. It sounds like your hubby is just overdoing it. Talk to him honestly and just tell him how you feel. Don't argue about it - just let him know that you love him and you love being around him - but that you need some space to yourself too.
If talking to him doesn't get him to give you some space, get into marriage counseling. Your hubby might need to hear it from a counselor that each spouse needs some space sometimes.
2006-06-13 14:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BAD BAD BAD, read Codependent No More by Melanie Beattie, it really helped me learn to let go. Share it with him. Good luck.
2006-06-13 21:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by patti_goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Landmark Forum. Big help for me in m life.
2006-06-13 21:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gonzalo P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you'd be a bit bent outta shape if he did not wanna spend time with you, huh? Maybe he just simply enjoys your company so much that he has a desire to be near you?? Maybe??
2006-06-13 21:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank the good lord u have someone who loves u that much, u dont know how lucky u are
2006-06-13 21:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be happy that he is like that. that shows that he really loves u. u dont find many men like that.
2006-06-13 21:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋