my boyfriend broke up with me because i danced with someone and he found out. then someone made up a lie and said i was holding hands with someone else. i still love him. what should i do. i cry for like 3 hours a school day.
2006-06-13 14:01:59 · 27 answers · asked by Chelsea Y 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If he is so mean then get rid of him. At prom my fiance was there and i ditched him to go dance with a few other guys one was gay one claims not to be gay. Then he went to go dance with them so i got to dance with his ex girl. Get an understanding guy
2006-06-13 14:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by marishka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound really young. I'm sorry to say it this way, but get over it if he chooses not to have you back. There is no need to cry. You have plenty of years ahead of you and they're be other boyfriends along the way. Give it time. I don't think you love him, you just have very strong feelings for him. It'll pass over. Too young to love. Don't know what it means yet. Do something better with your school day, like learn instead of crying for him. Crying is not going to bring his attention back if he broke up with you over a silly dance. (I hope you wasn't grinding on the dance floor). It's something really small. Put your attention on you right now and what you do. Not on boys all the time. Believe me it'll work out.
2006-06-13 21:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rochelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey , you are young & you deserve to have fun. i think that you should write your boyfriend a letter trying to explain the situation but also allow him time to cool off. give him space & plenty of it
if he still doesn't believe you after you try to tell him the truth , then just give him the boot.
maybe it wasn't meant to be. you deserve someone that can treat you with respect & allow you to be yourself.
i know it's hard breaking up with someone or even worse when they dump you. but i really do think that somewhere down the line that you'll look back on this & realise that bad things often happen to good people & the best thing you can do is to take things one day at a time. don't beat yourself up over this & allow yourself to go out with your friends.
i really hope & believe that everything will work out for you in the long run
2006-06-13 21:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by DONNA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. Dancing with another person is not the same as if you were to kiss or sleep with another person. Find someone who will let you have a life! Hope you feel better soon.
2006-06-13 21:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it IS okay to cry. Love hurts! But time does heal.
Take a step back from it all and ask yourself...is he worthy of me?
Because if he breaks up with you over something as small as a dance, and believes what other people say about you over your word......YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!
Love yourself; You are worth too much to lose yourself over any guy!
2006-06-13 21:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nanny4Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he gtes upset over you dancing with someone else then you deserve better. Never cry over a man who gets jealous. Be strong and move on
2006-06-13 21:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by kitty_loves_cuddles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so you should change schools or not go to school...i mean, it's 3 hours a school day, so, hey, it has to be the school, not you...or him...you did dance with someone else, they hand thing is just his idea of reinforcement that he doesn't want you....sooo, my suggestion, change schools, get a dog, they don't care who's hand you hold.
2006-06-13 21:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by ApplePie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think before you act. So what if you were dancing with someone else? he's sounds like he's obsessed...he could get worse with his demands...be thankful that he broke up with you...cry and dry your eyes and move on.
2006-06-13 21:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a dumb reason to break up with you. Unless you were grinding the other guy or something. You should try to get over your ex and go out with someone less overly jealous.
PS Cool we have the same name!
2006-06-13 21:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh i dance with millions of people. ummm u know what. get over him. hes a big jerk. And being single is more fun because if someone asks u out, u can go for it and try new things.
2006-06-13 21:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋