Since my daughter moved back in with me, she has no respect. I came home from work to find a condom wrapper in my bedroom.
2006-06-13 14:00:15 · 26 answers · asked by hottrouble1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has no right to be having sex in your HOUSE let alone in your BED. Set some standards for her. Let her know what you expect from her and give her notice in advance of what the consequence will be if she breaks your rule. Just be sure you can and WILL follow through with whatever you set the punishment to be. She has to know that you are not kidding or messing around. If you follow through, even though she won't like it, she'll know you mean business and might not try to break a rule again. She'll respect you for doing what you say and she seems to not have that kind of respect for you right now or she wouldn't be doing something she KNOWS you don't approve of!!
Tough love!!!
Good LUCK!!
2006-06-13 14:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your daughter and let her know that what she's doing isn't ok. You are the parent and you make the rules in your own home. If I was you I would get a lock on your bedroom door (key lock) and also let her know that if she keeps doing disrespectful things she is going to have to find another place to live. Remember, you own your home - your daughter doesn't.
2006-06-13 14:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this GIRL can't show the proper respect, it is time she moved out. She is a grown up now and it's time she showed a bit of responsibility for herself. It is hard to force your child to face reality, but ultimately the ONLY thing you can do. She obviously has no respect for you, so it is your place as her parent to teach her a very hard lesson. Good luck.
2006-06-13 14:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you rdaughter is old enough to be having sex then she is DEFINITELY old enough to MOVE OUT. Tell her to respect your things and your property and if she can't do that then she will need to find somewhere else to live. If you don't want to kick her out you can get a padlock for your door really cheap. Good luck.
2006-06-13 14:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by ghostlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you to talked to her? If you have, and things are still the same, kick her out. If she was younger then you can try to work it out. She is 18 years old and can take care of herself. If you constantly baby her, when will she learn? You said it yourself, she has no respect for you.
2006-06-13 14:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Fashionista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex in her bed, or just put a wrapper on the floor so she thinks that you did. Did you ask her if its hers? Hopefully, it wasn't your husbands.
2006-06-13 14:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either lock the room or kick her out. You know the expression,
"get a room?" Tell her to get her own room in her own apartment if she has no respect for you.
2006-06-13 14:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your house....set some rules or tell her to move out .
you could put locks on your bedroom door..but you shouldn't have to live like your in prison,,,,,
2006-06-13 14:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the chyt out of her or tell her to keep it moving it may be mean but its tuff love ...fix her act or move back out ..obviously she wanted better in life she moved back in so use some tuff love
2006-06-13 14:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by RaeCharles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw her out of your house and then she will stop doing that. if she has no respect for you, your house and your rules- she doesn't deserve to live there. as long as she stays there, she will continue to do what she feel's like doing. TOUGH LOVE, give it a try
2006-06-13 14:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mama-Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋