It drives me crazy when people will say hi to you out of now where and when you tell them your age they don't want to talk to you because you are either to young or old for them. What should age matter if you are just talking? Any one else have a say in this. Feel free to contact me and give me your answer cause this is driving me crazy.
2006-06-13 13:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate that, they say that they just want a friend, and then they get mad if your not their age, its stupid. i have friends of all ages, why can't they?
2006-06-13 13:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
In any kind of relationship such as friendship or love, age should not matter at all. What matters is the maturity of the person. There are lots of young people whose mental age is quite above average while there are also many old people whose mental age belongs to the very low level.
What you should try to emphasize to any person you meet is the kind of personality that you have. Your flexibility counts a lot because when you're with a young person, talk about things that might interest him while when you are with an older person, talk about things that interest old people.
Know the art of being a good listener and a good conversationalist. Read a lot about many things. Watch news Know a little about everything as much as you can and I'm sure, that will be your key in getting the interest of anybody whom you meet along the way.
2006-06-13 20:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesnt matter if u r only talking. A lot of my friends are older than me and we still have a great time. Dont let age get in the way of making new friends or talking to ppl
2006-06-13 20:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by asian_beetle2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically age has no direct bearing on intrellect or maturity. But people will judge what others do, and it'slking behind one's back that hurts. If you really do not give a flying f--k what others say or think, then go for it. It's your life, you alone have to answer for how you live it.
2006-06-13 20:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be willing to bet you are a very precocious flirty young lady. I'd also say that the men you are referring to are probably trying to protect you from yourself.
Please try to be patient with yourself. You'll grow up soon enough and look back wishing to could have your innocence back. Don't do anything just because it feels good do what is RIGHT and you'll have no regrets later.
Stay young dear, Pandora
2006-06-13 20:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Pandora R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My bf is 18 and I am 14. He is still crazy about me as he would be over any 17 or 18 year old. Its crazy, but very true. Even I cant believe it sumtimes...
2006-06-13 21:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the younger person turns 18, it shouldn't matter, but before the it completely does because no one wants to go to jail and get butt-raped for being a pedo, right?
2006-06-13 20:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think with the way laws and society is nowadays people get a little skidish when it comes to talking/flirting with someone younger than them.
when guys walk away from a conversation with you and find out that you're younger than they expected, its most likely because their intentions toward you weren't just to have a conversation...
all i can say is don't take it personally, if age is going to be a factor with someone they're not going to be worth the trouble.
2006-06-13 20:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by nm_angel_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me age dos not matter i am 55 years old and just like to chat to any one,as long as the conversation dose not contain any sexual references or contact details i am OK. but any one who wants to start asking a lot of personal questions i a do not want to speak to.
2006-06-14 08:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the way of the world and one bad apple has spoiled it for everyone so now you have to be careful or else wind up with a charge of some kind...
2006-06-13 20:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances on this issue.
2006-06-13 20:32:16 · answer #11 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋