that i had sexual experiences with other girls. i don't want her 2 knoe that im Bi. She found my myspace and it had comments from girls that i hooked up with. The comments said stuff like, "sex was reall good last nite" and "i love ur sexi body", and "can't wait 'til we DO IT again". What should i tell my mom. She didn't believe me when i lied and told her that they were kidding. Do u think i should just come clean and tell her? or keep lying so she doesn't find out? Pleazzzzzz Helllllllllllllppppppp Meeeeeeee!!!
2006-06-13 12:57:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would be so angry that my mother was looking through my email and personal belonging.... Maybe you should just come and tell her that you were experiementing because your confused about your sexuallity and its not her right to go snooping through your things.... Then again if you dont want her to know your bi, stick with your story.... Just tell her that she shouldn't read things that she doesnt understand because she has assumed the wrong thing!!!
2006-06-13 13:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_surf_chick06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most young people who pronounce themselves as "Bi" or "Homo" sexual are actually just going through a phase. It's usually curiousity, as a matter of fact...
However, if I were u, I would let my mother know how I'm feeling. It's times like this in a young lady's life that she needs support from her mother...whether it's just a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen...she can actually help u sort out ur feelings to decide which sexual preference u actually are.
Good luck, sweetie!
2006-06-13 20:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby u might as well come clean. She already knows so why keep lieing about it. She's gonna have to except you for who you are no matter what because you're her child. it's not like she can stop loveing you. So tell her.
2006-06-13 20:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Neshandria W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be ashamed of who you are, plus how is your mom going to know who you really are and accept the real you when she doesnt know the real you. Plus you cant get pregnant sleeping with a girl thats one good thing. Good Luck I hope that you come clean to her. Plus your comments said it all regardless of whether you lit about it she is always going to know the truth.
2006-06-13 20:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms loves their sons and/or daughters no matter what. It's like a policy. No matter if you're bi or or 'normal' she'll love you, but she'll probably have a bit of a hard time getting used to it.
2006-06-13 20:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by lolz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her-shes going to find out anyways+or you could just say it wasnt myspace it was a friends,i saved it from the commputer and downloaded it into "my space",it is possible so.......
2006-06-13 20:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say be proud of who you are. Be a woman about it and let her know that you are young and just experiencing. Lying is never the best idea.
and myspace is junk.. get off of there. Its so last year
2006-06-13 20:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by psychstudent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and calm down honesty is the best policy!come clean with her,after all she's your mom she'll understand,she may be mad now but she'll get over it!good luck
2006-06-13 22:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, if this happened to me , i would just keep on lying... parents will get scared oif you tell them something like that, even if they say " you can tell me anything"...just keep lying and comment them back saying not to put comments like that since your mom saw...
good luck....hope everything works out really good
2006-06-13 20:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Quinntin P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a lesbien is proven to be 100% sure to not get u pregnant.... good idea going with the chix and not the guys
2006-06-13 21:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋