Al rigth so my boyfriend keeps asking my friend if I like my other friend Troy. The answer is no. But he keeps asking even if she says no and I just don't want to say anything because I caught him liking my other friend and now I think that he thinks that I am trying to get him back, when I'm not. And ya I DO spend a lot of time with Troy because he is like one of my best friends that I have known the longest and I can trust him and tell him anything but if I tell that to my boyfriend he will get jealous and I don't want that to happen, again 8^/ |And that is my problem can anyone PLZ help??
2006-06-13 12:45:43 · 18 answers · asked by armygirl89 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him
2006-06-13 12:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by good guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be hard but you may want to cut back on the time you spend with Troy - just for awhile until your boyfriend gets over the green-eye monster bit. Also you may want to get the two guys together and see if they are open to the idea of playing basketball or something else together so your b/f can see Troy is only a friend and nothing more. Just a thought and it may or may not work for you. Good luck!
2006-06-13 12:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by dragoninfo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut out all of the middle-men. Go to your boyfriend and tell him that you're with him and only him because you chose to (for now). Tell him that Troy is a valued friend and always will be. Get used to it or get moving on. Remember, there's ALWAYS another guy to take his place. It sounds to me like Troy would be better suited as a boyfriend, rather than the fellow you're hanging out with anyway. Think about it.
2006-06-13 12:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the most jealous guy i know. I have been with him for over 3 years now, and he is starting to get over it, a little. When i talk to another guy that i know and he doesn't know him, he'll start asking me 20 ?'s. All that i tell him, is that its nothing and he knows that he's the one that i love. If not then i wouldn't be with him. So if you wont to tell your boyfriend then i think you should give it a try, because who knows, if you don't, then he might keep suspecting something, and dump you. And also if you tell him and he doesn't except it then he is not worth it.
2006-06-13 13:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Red Velvet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest. Let him know that your friend Troy is Just a friend. But if your boyfriend is liking your friends then that lets you know what kind of person he is. HE can't be trusted. You don't need to stress about petty stuff like that. Enjoy your youth. Don't try to settle with one boy, explore your options. And don't let them no good creatures stress you.
2006-06-13 12:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you must tell him that there is nothing between your friend troy and you...jealousy can be a relationship killer...dont just say "no" convince him, and also, comunicate directly with him...tell him you know what he thinks and that's it....
communication is the key to a long and successful relationship...
if you really love your boyfriend...be clear! or he could get frustrated and leave you.....
Good Luck!
J
2006-06-13 12:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Janet S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him. He has been unfaithful to you and now he doesn't trust you because of a guilty conscience... sugar bee he isn't worth your time. You can do so much better. It may seem that you love him now but this is like a minor factor in the whole problem. Someday your prince charming will show up, as for now you can step on frogs waiting for your toad. Best of Luck.
2006-06-13 12:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your man is doing is trying to find a way to make himself feel better for liking one of your friends. So he is hoping that you like Troy so that he can turn the tables on you and blame you or feel bad for what he did.
Why is he liking your friend and why are you with someone who wants your friend?
2006-06-13 12:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys and men are like that, they want you for just them. You can tell them since they are so mature they should realise you can have friends of all sorts and they should trust you. If you did not have lots of friends you would be boring.
2006-06-13 12:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes your best friend, hes your boyfriend. The point is, if he was cheating ( or whatever that turned out to be) and its so hard for him to believe that youre being honest, theres a big chance the best thing would be to say bye-bye!!!
2006-06-13 12:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by Wizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a choise. Ithink the boyfriend sounds jealous and very insecure so let him go.
2006-06-13 12:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋