And--what can I wear to get older guys to check me out? Remember I'm not exactly pretty and not skinny-not fat. Help me out please!
2006-06-13 12:37:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No matter how tall you are guys will like you. A really sweet guy dosen't care how you look, they like you for your sense of style, attitude, smile, the things that matter most. You can wear nice skirts, camis, spagetti straps, and other types of clothes that really bring out who you are. Get clothes that say your spunky and fun. Remember, your pretty in your own way.
2006-06-13 12:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Saph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be men that are into younger girls. Doesn't matter if you're 13 and look 16. Your looks aren't even that important to alot of men. If you really want to get their attention---it's more about personality. Confidence. But at your age that is hard to come by. You could truly not be a "pretty" girl but confidence is always sexy. But 13 is never sexy. So I'd wait until you know how to handle yourself with an older guy anyhow. You have know idea what you're getting yourself into.
2006-06-13 19:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you don't look at the news or read the paper? You need to be careful out in the world and think more of yourself. You don't get back your childhood once it is gone, so make what you can of it... I know being tall isn't easy (my sister was in your situation), but trying to be an adult when you don't need to be and aren't ready is an even worse situation.
I am sorry to say that there are men out there who will take advantage of you regardless if they know of your age or not. Also try and reverse the situation and ask yourself if you like being lied to... I bet you don't. So take your first step towards maturity and relax... learn more about you! Find out what a good and wonderful person you are! Take Care!
2006-06-13 19:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by oh, yes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should cool your hormones and I would even say not to date until you are at least 16...and stay away from the older guys ( there will be plenty of time for them when you are older and more mature) What is the rush?, enjoy your childhood just a little longer
2006-06-13 19:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by mrselange 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the perfect example of why the justice system sucks. This girl is going to go out with a 22 yr old guy. Then when things dont turn out in her favor she is going to cry rape and this guy is going to be sent to the slammer and get violated from here until eternity because Daddy's little (evil) princess didnt get what she wanted!!
2006-06-13 20:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rock Skull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who hooked up with a 17 year old guy when she was 14. He took her virginity, her kindness, her home and used everyone until he was tired and at 16 she was left by him.Take things slow, don't rush em. Older guys who date young girls are usually hot for "jail bait" or if they don't know ur younger you could get them in big trouble. so just be 13 and enjoy it.
2006-06-13 19:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by eyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO.....take your time....why try rushing into being older than what you are..........Your time will come soon enough........Plus honestly the only thing your going to receive from a older man is the possibilities of a bad situation....That could bring even more trouble than you can imagine.....Not to mention diseases, pregnancy, god for bid RAPE, I understand where your coming from I was once your age just slow down allow your self to be a child...being all grown up isn't near as fun as you think it is.
2006-06-13 19:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by reds074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want older guys to check you out!!! Just dress in a way you look pretty! And if you exercise your self confidence will chance which will make you feel better! And if you feel better youll be more atractive!! To anyone!!
2006-06-13 19:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Doña! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that!
Enjoy being young.
Date people your own age, they are the ones that will respect you and treat you like your 13. It sounds bad but once your old enough to understand I think you would like to date people your own age. People have to start off dateing people there own age because if you dont you will run into problems that arent ment for you yet.
2006-06-13 19:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, you dont need perverts staring at you or checking you out or even dating you for that matter, That is just plain wrong. Just be yourself and try to look for guys around your own age.
2006-06-13 19:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Reality Has A Libertarian Bias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋