there is no soild proof but alot of things said and done to make you really think
2006-06-13 12:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by nikikat1112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there are people that said that he slept with people b4 we get married and after, but we are not even maried for a year and he all a sudden ask for and break/separtion and i have people comin up to me sayin a whole lot of s@@@. and the bad thing is i kinda believe them.
2006-06-13 12:45:59 · update #1
find out all u can about this rumor before u blow up
2006-06-13 12:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get all worked up over talk.
Who's spreading the rumor? If it's your friend, then I guess she really isn't your friend. Remember, don't put it passed either of them. Just the fact that this is bothering you makes it obvious to us that is possible they are doing the horizontal mambo.
Smack the man around, and ask him straight out. Catch him off guard with it. If he stumbles, he's cheating.
2006-06-13 19:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bigfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU SHOULD ASK YOUR HUSBAND WHAT IS GOING ON AND MORE THAN LIKELY IF HE IS CHEATING HE WONT TELL THE TRUTH. YOU SHOULD ALSO ASK THIS SO CALLED FRIEND IF SHE HAS OR EVER HAD SOMETHING GOING ON WITH YOUR HUSBAND. THERE HAS TO BE A REASON FOR ALL THE RUMORS. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TRY AND FIND OUT IF THIS IS TRUE OR PEOPLE ARE JUST BEING JEALOUS.
2006-06-13 19:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut. We women have something called intuition, you said want a separation. Leave him before he hurts you even more. I'm not telling you to leave your husband, but you stated his seeking separation after a month.
2006-06-13 20:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by gzmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all and every body cant be wrong...
what does your gut tells you...
move on he wants a break and it hasnt even been a year... to hell wiht him..
why wait arround..eather he loves you or he doesnt no inbetweens..
and i dont know about you but personaly have a proble with people feeling sorry for me cuz im some asshole's fool..
you will be fine.. move on..
2006-06-13 19:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he married to you t the time or was it before you? if it was before you then dont worry about it, you cant change the past. if it was recently then confront him not her. he is the one who betrade you not her, he is the one you care about and what he says counts, if you think you need to confront her then do it but remeber your job is on the line here. things might heat up at work. becarefull!!!!!!
2006-06-13 19:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u believe this slap the ***** and take ya husbands *** to church to tell the damn truth u cant leave him girl unless if they had sex girl then its either that ya dont believe that ya swre heaven and earth to be togetha but if ya had kids get ya child support and leave but dont suspect him like write down things like clues and solve it. ok
2006-06-13 19:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by tiff4elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a open mind ask them rumors are the number one lies then form your own opinion
2006-06-13 19:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Ask!
2006-06-13 19:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by girrl4riverside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe it could have happened? If you do, then she isn't your friend and you should confront her?
2006-06-13 19:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋