2006-06-13 12:05:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wish we could give the magic answer that you are looking for but we do not know the answer you seek, No one here knows your guy, we do not know if he is good type of guy or a bad guy, only you know the answer to that dilemma.
What do your heart tells you?
Did you & he talk about such things before this happened?
The only way you will know is to tell him, and hope that you made a good choice in lovers since you have decided to make this guy the father of your unborn child.
Good Luck and Best Wishes for the family you two have created.
2006-06-13 12:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just ask that and not go into more detail.
It depends on how long you've been together, how old you both are, if you plan on getting married, and if you plan on keeping it.
Basically, he's only going to be happy about it if he's ready to have a kid. It's a big step to take.. but you need to tell him whether he'll be happy about it or not. If he neglects you, he's a piece of **** and not worth staying with anyway. If he's a decent guy who's worth keeping around period, he should support you no matter what. If he is scum, though, you need to decide if you're ready to raise a child on your own. If you're not, you probably shouldn't have it. (I'm pro-choice.. if you're not I hope I didn't offend you... if you're pro-life, you can put the child up for adoption) Make sure that whatever you decide, put a lot of thought into it.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 12:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by sunspot2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Man Will Stand Up And Take Responsibility For You And Your Baby. Be Honest Just Tell Him. If He Reacts Wrong Then You Know There Is Someone Better Out There. Just Worry About Your Health And Your Baby's Health.
2006-06-13 12:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by nitehawk8075 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it depends on your situation (how you get along, how long you have been together, if you are serious about eachother, etc.). If he loves you he'll be happy... if he doesn't then he will probably be sad but it doesn't necessarily mean he will neglect you. I think only a man that wants absolutly nothing to do with you would neglect the mother of his unborn child.
2006-06-13 12:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by SiLLy-mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly do you think anybody can speak or think for your boyfriend? Only he can tell you the answer himself. There is really nothing to be afraid as you have to tell him anyways. Just take it in stride. A child is always a blessing in one's life. Think the good things about that.
Remember it took the two of you to make this happen and is both of your responsiblity. Don't shoulder it alone. He needs to also know what he created with you and have the opportunity to take responsibility with you.
I wish you well!
2006-06-13 12:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy is a jerk and under the age of 17 he'll probably freak out and neglect you. But if your guy really loves you and is totally committed to you he might be a bit freaked out but he will be happy about it.
2006-06-13 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by JoHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda worried because your question reveals that you're pregnant without concertation with your bf! Plus, you're wondering NOW about his feelings about it!
Then you're talking about being neglected or the possible happiness of your bf!
Now my questions are:
-How old are you??
-What about the baby?
2006-06-13 12:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by fabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you still need to tell him, he has the right to know. Especially if he is the father of the baby. But if hes a nice guy and really loves you he will help you take care of it. Congratulations!
2006-06-13 14:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. My boyfriend was sort of just surprised when i told him. But then he was happy.
It just depends on the way you tell him.
Make sure you break the news whrn hes in a good mood
2006-06-13 12:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old he is and how mature he is. Hopefully even if he isn't happy he'll step up and be a man and take care of you and the baby!!!
2006-06-13 12:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋