i call him and now he doesnt call me back i mean last night we were getting along fine nothing happend just today he doesnt answer my calls or doesnt call me back on my messages!! :-)
2006-06-13 11:55:21 · 19 answers · asked by lexus 1 in Dining Out ➔ Mexico ➔ Oaxaca
Why is this in the dining out section?
2006-06-13 12:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
you got to get with the program. DO NOT CALL HIM ANYMORE !!! even if you want to badily because your upset, mad , or just plain lonely. DO NOT PICK UP THE PHONE. When he calls don't pick up the first time, let it go to voicemail, now you have to go according to your time . Nothing is better than a silent war, haahaha. I know it might sound out there , but girl you are a women of the 2000's and you have to go according to your time, the last thing you want is for him to think you are vunerable. and after that first call, wait 15 minutes, seee if he calls again , if not give him a call later that day , like 4 5 hrs and if he doesnt pick up , leave a semi sweet seductive messege and say," hey, i was just calling to toouch base with you , got a call from you early , i was caught up with a lot of stuff, anyhow give me a call , all right then hear from you soon bye. click hang up. Then it is okay to pick up the next time he calls. Trust me guys need there space, in the begfinning it is important to give them space because that will only make them realize how the future relationship will be. If worse comes to worse , and you really want this guy dress all cute i mean extra sexy and go to the hot spots he hangs out , and DONIT BE CLINGY, if you decide hes a waste a time then keep on steppin girl he probably wasn't worth your time anyways. i hope this helps you out some . good luck .
2006-06-18 13:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by hithere 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going to say this first always keep an open mind about things you don't ever want to jump to conclusions about stuff. OK hes not calling you back he may be at work and is busy or don't have is phone. but if he did not return any of your messages or call I say don't call him anymore because the more you show a guy you are interested the more hes on his side thinking he can get you whenever he wants to I would suggest not to call him no more today until he returns your calls. don't show him you are interested and really there can be many reasons why he didn't call you back but be patient girl cause good thing comes from being patient.
2006-06-13 19:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by darknlovely9981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are calling him a lot, then that is probably going to scare him away. Just leave one message and let him get back to you. Also, sometimes people don't always respond the very next day. Just take things one call/day at a time.
Talking on the phone can mean everything to girls and hardly anything to boys-it is the way we're wired. It's not exactly their highest priority, so just aim to spend more time in person.
2006-06-13 18:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aemilia753 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys enjoy a chase. If he thinks you are more interested in him than he is in you, he starts to lose interest. I know it doesn't seem logical but matters of the heart have little to do with logic. You need to challenge him. Stop paying attention to him. Start talking to other guys where he can see you doing so. Show him that if he doesn't have time for you, then you don't have time for him. (Even if the fact of the matter is that he's all you think about.) And be patient. It may take him a few days to come around. When he starts to show interest in you again, play it cool and don't let him know that you're thrilled. No matter how you feel, always make him think that he is just a little more interested in you than you are in him. I've been through the same thing you're going through and believe me, this approach works.
2006-06-13 19:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by tupelosmiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is doing something dont worry I promise he will call you back and if he doesnt you give me his address I will beat the crap out of him okay....
2006-06-13 18:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by casparin0324 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing hard to get Girl you jsut saw him last night have some dignity and wait for him to call don't harras him. let him do the begging
2006-06-13 18:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by chikis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. why is this in the dining section??
2. play hard to get....to really find out if this guy likes you...if he doesn't call you, then he isn't the right one for you
2006-06-14 15:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a couple days if he doesn't call, don't kill him, just say something like "haven't heard from you in a while I just wanted to see whats up" If its meant to be honey, it will happen! TRUST ME!
2006-06-13 19:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by moon_fariey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's seeing somebody else on the side and just not telling you, except what u want to hear. Just a thought.
2006-06-13 19:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by sweetaseternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋