is it normal for a 14 y/o boy to be gay? is therer a way out?
2006-06-13 11:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by kickenchicken360 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Your sexuality does not throughly develop until late puberty or early 20's Don't let curiosity and easy arousal confuse you. You might be having sex with boys because they are more easily available than girls. See a counselor, talk it over with an adult you can trust. And don't let yourself be easily seduced by other men. Give your self time and you can work it out. If you end up gay so what.
2006-06-13 16:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is gay or lesbian. It is just a state of mind. People have problems and fears and so they are led to believe this horrible lie. God created us to be attracted to and married to the opposite sex not the same sex. If God wanted you to be with another man he would have created you that way. He didn't. I would encourage you to talk to your parents and maybe get help because there is a reason for you to be thinking that you are gay and once you figure out what it is you will be able to get over this. Remember there is no such thing as being gay or lesbian, it is only a state of mind.
2006-06-13 18:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is how you define it. Usually you'll associate normal with the majority of cases. If your question is is it normal for a 14 y/o boy to be gay my answer would be to investigate the incidence of homosexuality in your population.
My answer for "is there a way out " would be that you are who you are and whomever you are you should be yourself, you shouldn't sacrifice your happiness for anyone or anything.
Life is short figure out who you are, what you want and what you are passionate about and pursue it till your heart is consent.
2006-06-13 18:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nicholas C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's normal! Our sexual identity is actually established at a very young age and there isn't a helluva lot we can do about it. Gays are more and more accepted in society now so it's best that you/he just accept it and get on with life! Nothing says you have to tell anyone else if you don't want to either. It's nobody's business but your own!
2006-06-13 21:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can be normal
As for a way out: If it is in his nature there might not be anything that can be done. Or he might overcome his natural tendencies and be with a girl but whether he will be completely happy and satisfied only he will know
2006-06-13 19:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not "normal" to be gay at any age. It is weird! Being gay is wrong! As some people have said."God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve."
2006-06-13 18:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by lipglosslover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell the 14 year old to see a counselor if they are having issues accepting themselves for who they are.
2006-06-13 18:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by bloominwhereimplanted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its normal, and no theres no way out, my cousin sean said he knew he was gay at the age 10 or 11, you should know if your attracted to girls or boys
2006-06-13 18:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not unusual. However, you are too young to determine your sexuality at this point. Give it some time at least more than five years when you can determine for sure.
2006-06-13 18:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r gon to hell
2006-06-13 21:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by sstines05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋