Still love you but want to have another partner, not just a one time threesome.
2006-06-13 11:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then it's selfish on my part not to accept because the other women accepts me.
2006-06-13 11:42:17 · update #1
Then is it a question of sacrifice yourself for someone you love?
2006-06-13 11:50:27 · update #2
Selfish love?
2006-06-13 11:59:23 · update #3
Why shouldn't the other woman accept you? She has nothing to lose. No, you should not accept this, your marriage is not a monopoly or business, it's a partnership between two people. Tell your spouse that they knew this when they got into it and if they really loved you, you'd be the only one for them. I don't know of some real good advice, if I was in your situation I seriously think I would beat my husband and then go after the girl, but that's probably not the best answer. Tell your partner they are an *** and they deserve all the herpes they're going to get by messing around and it's a SHAME they are being so ridiculous and are losing you. Leave.
2006-06-13 11:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by sgrjackson1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this something you want? If you're into it, then go for it. Otherwise, stand your ground. If your partner wants to be with you, then he or she will choose you. If your partner chooses another partner, then its better for you to find out now than in another 7 years. Just move on and find a partner who wants you and only you.
Personally, I'm not into swinging or polygamy; therefore, I wouldn't not be able to accept this type of relationship. I more comfortable in a strictly monogamous relationship.
2006-06-13 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one thing to want to have a one time "fling" but having a relationship with another person will probably spell doom. Jealousy, resentment and rage will destroy your relationship. What if you had arrangments and they broke them for this other partner? You would be pushed to the side. Nothing good can come of this.
2006-06-13 12:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! If she cheated and I found out I would leave her. Try to re-kindle the romance or try counseling. Try to be happy with what you got. If your partner is abusive or just refuses to make love with you, then just end the relationship.
2006-06-13 11:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by david 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in polygamy it destroys marriages.
If your partner wishes another mate let him do the right thing and divorce you. There is no need in making you suffer for it. And please don't believe in the theory of "love and not force." It is wrong simply.
K
2006-06-13 11:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by kaiynasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i would not want or accept it at all. This is adulterous and wrong. Why does she want and feel that she needs this anyway? I dont feel however that she truley loves you as she would or she would not even want to do this to you or your marriage at all! This is just wrong wrong wrong!
2006-06-13 11:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way..that is NOt love...he wants to have his cake and eat it too...you deserve better....he doesn;t respect you or want a long time future with you..move on
2006-06-13 11:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have a strong relationship.
2006-06-15 14:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are swingers. not my thing, personally, but if you wanna try it- go for it. to me id be jealous! try other things to spice it up a bit.
2006-06-13 11:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by (NO) NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-06-13 11:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by BECKER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋