Ok well I am dating a drill sgt and he is 33 and i'm 20. We care for each other alot. My family is flipping out bc of the age difference and the fact he has a child along with if we end up getting married there would be no telling which base I would end up at. I know this isnt alot of detail but I really dont know what I should do about all of this.
2006-06-13 11:31:20 · 4 answers · asked by SouthernGal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your heart. If you love him, your family will soon love him too. As long as your happy, they should be happy for you. Don't pass up the best man who has entered your life because of your family. I know it is your family, but he can do things to you, your family can't or should I say shouldn't for all the smart butts out there.
Best of luck to you and enjoy your life, you only get one chance in life and you make the best of each day.
2006-06-13 11:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your family wants what is best for you. They have known you much longer than the drill sargeant, right? Take a step back and look at the situation. Why do you want to become an instant mother and wife? Age 20 is a great time to spend on you.
2006-06-13 18:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 20 years old.. A year ago you were still a teenager.. He is 33 years old.. Believe me, I know you think you love him, but you will be moving way to fast if you get married.. He might just be looking for someone to watch his kids while he gone than come home and have a young hot girl to sleep with when he gets home.. I personally think he is using you, but that is just me.. You have to ask yourself, "Why can't he find someone his age?" believe me there is reason, and the sad part is, you will find out, but it will be to late... Just PLEASE think about what your getting yourself into.. Guys can be good liars.. But I also can be wrong to, I have no problem admitting my faults..
2006-06-13 18:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bigg B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your heart.
2006-06-13 18:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋