If i got another women prengant in an affair and she want allow me to see the child if my wife an other children around. So what am I supposed to do? My wife an I have let this in the past and moved on. So am I supposed to do? My wife and children or this other child? My wife is willing to let this child come into our home and treat it like one of hers.
2006-06-13 11:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by bluedophin005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First and foremost you need to establish paternity in the eyes of the court system. IF you have accepted the child is yours, then next step is if your paying child support, you have the right to parenting time.. Whether she likes it or not, As long as your wife is not a threat to the child (and not from what I read) then there is no court that will deny you visitation with your child.
She is just being a witch and needs to grow up.. Two thumbs up and hats off to your wife she must be a very special lady :) You have been blessed to have her on your side.
I know in the state we live in, paternity has to be established even if the bf/gf are living together. That will give the father his legal rights. Just being on the birth certificate is not enough.
If you really want to see your child and make him/her a part of your life, then get the ball rolling and show her you really do care and not giving up and playing her childish games.
2006-06-13 11:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go and get some legal advice. You are the father of this child and you have rights. It makes me angry and ashamed to be a woman when i see other women using there kids as weapons. You are very lucky to have a supportive wife. I can only say that your ex is jealous of your wife and family. You and your ex do have a child together so you do need to support the child financially. But like I said go and seek legal advice.
2006-06-19 11:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by flymetothemoon279 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see your child and be apart of his/hers life that is your right as a parent, If the childs mother is acting like that then you need to take her to court and present that to the judge. That child is just as much yours as it is hers and she cant tell you who to have around the child unless that person is a bad person, by the sounds of it you have a kick a** wife and there is no reason the babiy's mama should give you altamatums when it comes to the child. Get custody and make her pay
2006-06-13 18:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a baby you pay for the baby. You want visitation rights, it's a separate issue.
Sorry you cheated and got caught. Your wife is a special lady to still allow you to stay in her home with her children.
2006-06-13 18:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see the other child take her to court for access. If you are the father then the law is on your side. They will arrange access for you and an agreed amount for child support. Unfortunatly it is your responsibility to pay child support whether you see the baby or not. But that's whether you wanna do the right thing!
2006-06-13 18:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should've left your thing in your pants.
Children cost money. The mommy takes half and the father takes the other half. You make them, you support them. If you want visitation, take yourself to court and ask for it. If you're a criminal, then the judge can take that into consideration. If you're walking a straight line, then you shouldn't have a problem.
I've just finished paying 10 years of support and my daughter just graduated. It makes me proud. Just be careful to get your credits where credits are due. Such as, paying your taxes. Make sure if you're paying your support, you get half the credit, too. Get it in writing.
2006-06-13 18:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Financial support should not be hedged against visitation or a quickie with the ex etc.etc.
It is your moral duty to see to the corect rearing , educational and emotional needs of the child.
So go on - PAY UP !
2006-06-14 03:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Basil P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a paternity test to verify it is yours!!!
If so...you do have rights, and she cannot keep you from seeing this child. If she has filed for child support, then you need to establish visitation.
2006-06-13 18:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around! For you to ask such question was stupid enough. No wonder you mess up from the start because you can't think right! We're Human! You make that mistake you fix it!
2006-06-13 18:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by lk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its your own fault. u shouldnt have had an affair and got another woman pregnant. u did it, u pay for it. your wife is mad by the way. id have kicked your @ss out.
2006-06-13 20:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋