Ok so me and my boyfriend got in a huge fight cuz he cant understand why when i go down on him i wont let him go in my mouth and swollow..i told him i just dont want to and if you love me just respect the fact that i dont want to and i think it is gross. He then said..if you love me you would suck it up and just do it cuz you know ill like it....what should i do???
2006-06-13 11:21:42 · 30 answers · asked by :::Rae::: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
On the flip side, if he loves you he would respect that you simply just don't want to. he should totally respect that. i wont do that either... i let my man go wherever but not in my mouth. he is fine with it. your man should grow up and accept it.
2006-06-13 11:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cupid 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Swollower
2016-11-01 09:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by forson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hold of your feelings. He's putting this on you, really, cuz he's an idiot. What pleasure does he get if you swallow? I feel if you want to go down on your boyfriend, then he's a lucky dude. That's all that matters, right? It's the same thing,
I'm not expecting a gift after I go down on a woman. My gift is the excitement that a woman has after I give. That's a pat on my back.
2006-06-13 11:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's an act of surrendering to the man's will, and something that many women do. If you take him far back in your mouth, when it happens, it will just go down your throat and you won't taste it. But keep in mind, if it's something you don't want to do - don't do it. There are plenty of guys out there who don't want and/or need this act. However, if it's an act that your boyfriend "needs", then be prepared for the inevitability that he'll eventually find someone else who will.
2006-06-13 11:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Buster Van Buren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just going to play devil's advocate as you are referring to a relationship here. You should at least be willing to TRY it because you know it is something he has voiced an interest in trying many times. Hell, you might even like it. But the fact is over the course of I don't know how long, you still haven't even tried it once, just because you assume it will be less than ideal for you. Probably because taste, texture, or whatever. Just think about how excited he would be to get that opportunity. You're being a little selfish to be honest. I would neeeever ask a girl to do anal. But, if she asked me I might give her some resistance on it. But eventually, I would be open to the idea because she explicitly requested this act in order to gain pleasure, be adventurous, what ever. And that's what it's really all about right? Give and take. Sounds like you're taking a lot, but not giving a lot. And btdub, it is swallow*
2015-09-19 08:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Casey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are not comfortable doing it then don't do it..if he loved you he wouldn't want to make you do something you are so against.
as for why guys like it..i think it is because you are swallowing a part of him so to speak..i think women like it when men keep their mouths down there when they have an orgasm too.
2006-06-13 11:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by lisa p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt really matter if you spit or swollow as long as it goes in your mouth, I could see it being a problem if right when he was about to orgasm you made him go to the bathroom and finish it off. That would ruin the experience.
2006-06-13 11:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't like the taste, then forget it. you have to enjoy all of it to do it. some females do some don't. nobody's taste much different from another person's so it really is nothing against him, gotta be open, how does the reverse case work with you guys?
2006-06-13 12:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by OnceAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Empty a raw egg into his mouth and see if he can handle it. If so, perhaps you could try to swallow for him. My guess is he'll never ask you again.
2006-06-13 11:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a little trick that might teach him a lesson about swallowing. Next time your boyfriend is over go down on him and let him finish in your mouth. Keep it in your mouth and tell him you are going to brush your teeth so you can kiss him. When you come back from the bathroom (with it still in your mouth), smile and give him a big open mouthed kiss passing his wad from your mouth to his. If he swallows it, ask how he liked it. If he spits it out, get mad at him and tell him to suck it up because he knows you'll like it. I believe that is called "snowballing".
2006-06-13 11:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuately many men have watch too many pornos and talked to too many boy who exaggerate and think it makes a difference if you swallow or spit. It cant make that big a difference. Love is about compromise, not doing something you are offended by. He needs to get over himself. If a girl who swallows is more important than a healthy relationship then dump him.
2006-06-13 11:28:43 · answer #11 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋